Originally Posted by shemarchi:
“Afernoon all.
Late on parade i know, have had dreaded lurgy since Saturday
evening.
Just came on all of a sudden.
Spent yesterday in bed and have just got up (well half an hour ago )
Feel lots better but not quite right yet.
I have read back and some very interesting posts
have been posted.
I agree with OldGirl about the abuse insinuations,
didn't i say the other day that that is the main reason i would slap John's legs for
(metaphorically).
Those insinuations to me are ten times worse than saying
someone is manipulative and or controlling.
That leads to people on twitter boasting about how they have emailed a firm that employs Josie telling them what an violent drunken abuser she is and telling them to sack her.
I said once that i would never admit which one i had the softer spot for,
but i now admit it was John , although i loved them both.
Since the split however i lost a tiny little of respect for John (u tube, batsh*te etc)
and now they are on equal par.
I just wish they would as John would say "Build a Bridge"”
Good afternoon shem, loving all your stories, and the way you keep the thread going thro' the day, i often have a quick lurk when I have'nt got time to post just to catch up with the latest one

I can see why you would maybe think the worse of John for certain things that he did, but for me they both did/said/ posted, devastating things about each other, and in doing so,devastatingly lost respect for each other

I still appreciate them both, and of course, hope they are both happy with their lives apart. It would be the best news to hear that they had built that bridge
Last edited by welshgirlwpq2th : 12-12-2011 at 15:12