LOL, my first today

I do. Josie went on and on in the house about how she hated to be drained, in fact she mentioned it in today's article. She was drained by the time John left, as I'm sure was he, and she's much happier now. Don't know if you saw the pics of her in the Now article today, but she looks happy, carefree, and loving life.


I think it's more of he wants to be right. We know that. He always wants to be right. So he's gotta put it out there that he is and she's not.


LOL, I don't want anyone to love me like you think John loves her. He's done nothing but hurt her since he left. Nothing nice. Nothing positive. Nothing. It's all been to hurt her. It doesn't matter if he's hurt or not (which I don't think he is), that's not cool. People who are precipitating this I worry about a little. Why would you want someone to be with someone who treats her this way? Billi Bhatti, the papped pics, selling a story on new girl friend...real or not, posting youtube inferring horrible things, outing a private email when she was asking for help, etc. etc.

I wouldn't want my little sister to be with someone who treated her like that.

While the reuniters club validate this behavior it's not mature and it's not okay. I'm sorry, but it's not. And saying how great it is is weird. Very weird. Yes, Josie's mentioned her relationship with him in mags, but it's about her life and how she feels about it. She's not doing things to out and out hurt him.


Yes, I'm sure she's loved the tweets calling her obsessed and a liar. It must have made her all giddy inside.

She's not rubbing Luke all over Twitter, she's living her life. She's doing what she did when she was with John. Tweeting what she wants about what she wants.

Evening!
The wheels are going round so quickly they're on the verge of flying right off! Whether John say the mag before or not, I think his reaction was spurred by her email asking him to do something for her, as I can imagine he's been absolutely incandescent with rage following all the "Lukey" activity and was given the rope he needed to react...

When you don't like someone you're not going to ask to put an end to it. He could bicker with her in private quite easily - she did email him afterall. What's your theory on why he's fuelling the flame of her haters on twitter?

Ferfer, I have exchanged pleasant messages with you in the past, but I may say, if you continue to reply to posts of mine with such a sarcastic and rude tongue then I'm afraid I shall have to block you. I enjoy calm and respectful discussion and am happy to engage in this, but will not respond when your attitude is mocking and confrontational.

"Love is in the air...in every sight and every sound...AND TWEET"

I don't understand this. I guess for the people who think they're going to get back together you want some sort of contact. But how many people would want a private email you sent to your ex, tweeted out, mocked, and belittled? I mean really? I just don't understand.


LOL, yes well since Josie can take it, it's okay. That's the thing about Josie, is she's always taken it. But she doesn't have to. And I think that's what today was about. John has implied a lot about her in the past, she wanted to set that straight.


But the intensity of John's fans has increased. They've ruined this dumb vote for only hate on her. They've emailed Now, OKTV, and the people involved in the vote spewing their hate. Does she want that to continue, especially with other jobs? It's excessive and out of control. It HAS changed. Because since their tweets TO her have not annoyed her, they've moved on to her employers and livelyhood. So she goes to him and asks him to get them to stop...and this is what she got?

Its wrong but so is belittling him in a mag however whats done done did you see Rebakah has changed her twitter pic i bet it twas after she read your description of it,

My theory is he's trying to hurt her, as she is him. Whatever went on between them, they both hurt each other a lot and equally I would imagine. Josie does not need to mention JOhn in magazines, she can say 'no comment' or even 'I have a great new bf now who would rather I don't discuss my ex', but she doesn't. Why? She knows John will find out what she's said and what is Josie well known for - goading John for a reaction. He's tried the "ignore" act, as he did in the house and now he's trying the "bicker" option. IMO of course

yes Welshy its nothing new but it seems to be getting worse for Josie lately.
John hasn't had much for ages although he is getting some today.
The fruit is still going on and on about DV etc.
You know who i mean.
And how would John feel if crazies found out where he worked and inundated his employers with requests for them to sack him.
That is going beyond the pale, and to be honest if i was John i would not wish to have them connected to me in any shape or form.

There's probably a waiting line to get on the Ignore Ferfer group, so good luck.

But I'm sorry. I don't think love is about hurting people...especially 8 months after the fact. He doesn't love her. He's done everything he can to hurt her. That's not healthy and I don't want anyone to be with someone like that.

Ceeb you BULLY!

Making a poor defenceless girl/stripper/samaritan/loon have to change her picture. How do you sleep?

How is she belittling him in the mags? I'm not saying I like her talking about him, but she's answering questions about her views on her relationship. That's it. She's telling how she felt. That's all she's done. She's always been honest and says it like it is. That's it.


I agree. And I think he's just encouraged it today when she asked for just the opposite.

Such a shame that you show such a blatant disregard for other people's views and don't have the courtesy to respond to their requests for pleasant discussion and debate without the need for degradation.

I won't bother to respond to your posts anymore, as I cannot be bothered to waste my energy on a narrow-minded individual who doesn't believe in FREEDOM OF SPEECH. I don't have to justify my beliefs to anyone and will not lower myself to get involved in squabbles with blinded fans who only see one side's views.

I support John and Josie equally. Both make mistakes, both are flawed and both make good and bad choices, because, get this, BOTH ARE HUMAN! Josie is not an angel who has fallen from the heaven's to grace us with her presence and John is not a spawn of Satin, devoid of feelings and emotions. Sorry to burst your bubble!

Why don't you just save your energy for those who share one-sided views.

I agree that John hurt Josie Ferfer, that was plain to see, but I thought I also saw that she hurt him too, as I say again, both have behaved badly, and I don't think it's black and white. x

VIXXXEEEEN!! Keep your backside in her for the love of God! xxxx

I agree with you, but I dont think Josie really cares about it, I think she risk the vitrol because she wanted contact with him. He knows what some not all of his followers are like, he knows they are crazy, but he doesnt really interact much with them for that reason, so when he comes on twitter they go into a frenzy, and then get frustrated and hate on Josie, it so ludicrous, and yes he knows what reaction there will be, but then he doesnt care what ppl think does he, as hes said many times before.

Sorry fer thats just how it reads to me as others have said she could always say no comment i love Josie but even she admits she dont know when to stop talking its al so silly she must know her comments will attract more hate.. there are so many strange people out there why do that to yourself.
All her fans want to hear is how happy she is now; the past should be left in the past.

Ferfs just one thing .
We are not a reuniters club as you sarcastically put it,
Maybe in the early days and weeks of their split but not nowadays.
All on here would more than anything like to see them being friends again.
and what is so wrong in that.
And come to think of it what is wrong with someone hoping they do reunite.
What harm is it doing to you or anyone else.
None.
Its just someones personal opinion.

See I took it as he physically left her and that's when it ended. That's what it sounds like to me. And he's gleeful in his announcement of this. He wasn't coming back. I really see that from him.

I agree, people do hurtful things when they are angry. I see that totally, but what I see is someone who has done that to Josie since the day he left. And if Josie was my sister I would not want her to be with someone who has continually done things purposely to hurt her, months and months later. It's about winning with him, as one of his friends tweeted. WE WON. ???


Even though he said he was dating her?

Totally agree. He doesn't give a rip about anyone but Josie and the fact that he's not with her and she appears to be with someone is why he's returned to Twitter IMO. They have done this soooo many times when they've argued, been desperate to either get an angry or kind reaction from each other and at this point, it's been so long, I think they want any contact they can get because both are toooo stubborn to say stop, let's try and sort this out.

LOL! That would be so funny. I'm going to go look now.

100% Agree! I learnt a long time ago to never believe anything about John unless I see the expression on his face. His words usually say the exact oppositve to what he feels, but he's desperate not to show weakness!

Good evening all.

Phew.....Thought this day was never going to come......
Deana xx

Exactly!