For instance I find kaftan tops and boots sexy but not cardigans or most things with buttons on.

Is it because they have been sexualised or are they intrinsically sexy?

My hubby likes, skirts and big pants!!

don't ask why

I quite like french knickers rather than skimpy ones. But not keen on granny pants.

I was wondering if certain clothing is sexy because of cultural influences or personal ones.

i love to see women in leather pants,jeans or trousers especially with long hanging belts

Because certain clothes are see-through, tight, or reveal too much skin.

Plus there is the sexualisation of certain clothes from media/popular culture.