Originally Posted by gussiecat:
“I dont think anybody can deny they were both hurting. John looked devastated and worn out in TSAJ. He looked at the end of a very short thread and exhausted but he obviously still loved her but didnt know what to do. Josie was obviously hurt too, you could see that on TSAJ and afterwards too. Perhaps John felt he had backdown to Josie one too many time. It was Josie who ended it and told everyone he would have a new girlfriend in a couple of weeks, she obviously didnt believe he cared. perhaps John in a childish and immature moment decided to play her at her own game. i dont know. His anger certainly seemed to indicate to me anger and pain not a lack of feeling.
Josie was obviously devastated too. She showed some regret over their ending wheras John did not mention or have the opportunity to mention his pain. We could all see the pain on Josies face for a couple of months afterwards as she was on TV and in mags and was more open in tweets and dms(apparantly)
I think they were both heartbroken that it didnt work and to say otherwise is in a way belittling their relationship.”
John did look devastated and worn out. He also didn't cry once. From a man who cried countless times in the BB house and in his life...his words. I'm saying what I saw. Yes perhaps it's Josie's fault for John leaving, of course it is. It couldn't be John's fault. It couldn't be what John wanted. Because that wouldn't be the John that is in people's minds here. I thought both were as bad as each other...wait, that's only when something is negative about John. Trashing Josie alone is okay.
Also, John's now told us that he ended it. (I left YOU...his exact words) So maybe Josie didn't end it. She was mad in the middle of a fight and said stuff she regretted. Who here hasn't done that? But John has told us now that he ended it. Wonder when he ended it? When he left? When he got to Oz? When he started talking to Sherrie? Maybe qwerty will ask John since he got John to "end it" on Twitter for all to find out...Josie as well. As we know Josie didn't think it was over at that time. Until she tweeted Sorry guys JJJ is over, or whatever.
And it's not playing Josie at her own game to pretend to have a new girl friend, say he's over over her, and selling 2 stories on it mere weeks later. So in that case if anyone's sold themselves out, it's John.
It's interesting how John's anger is always excused by all these romantic feelings he has, when it's just seemed like John's M.O. of any argument...to need to be right. Just food for thought.
Originally Posted by
lerdie:
“There was an earthquake in Indonesia hope it is no where near Josie
xx”
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/...fa246418fb634c
Tsunami warnings as well. I hope Josie slept through it and isn't affected by it at all, but all the islands are close. Terrifying that the last time this happened 230,000 people died.