Originally Posted by *Sparkle*:
“Which bit of 9/10 times, his comments were the most constructive translates into "everything he's ever said is brilliant advice"?
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Seems the meaning of my comments were lost in translation. What part of this comment
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“So what advice for improvement should Sharron Davies have taken from his 'faecal matter' comment.”
implies that I'm suggesting you believe that
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“ "everything he's ever said is brilliant advice"?”
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“However, your reaction to my post does underline my view that most people who complain about what Jason says don't actually listen to what he says, but simply react without thinking.”
I did actually listen to what he said and I quote:
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“'You look like faecal matter that won't flush, that goes around and around but doesn't go anywhere.'”
I thought then as I still think now that his comments were a supercilious attempt at a clever put down. Far from achieving his aims he simply proved himself to be an attention seeking, inarticulate little creep, unable to offer constructive advice without resorting to insult.
They do say that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so I hope you feel duly flattered if I paraphrase your comments thus:
However your reaction to my post does underline my view that most of those who excuse his indefensible behaviour don't actually listen to what he says, but simply accept his appalling behaviour without thinking.
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“I wasn't that keen on his "faecal matter" comments, but it wasn't nearly as awful as some people claimed. The imagery was crude, but the point was simply that she was boring to watch, going round and round in circles, wearing brown, with no particular point and he was waiting for it to finish. It wasn't personal, although Sharron obviously took it personally, and he has to take a certain amount of responsibility for that, as it was already clear she had no sense of humour when it came to critiques of her skating. But at the same time, she and everyone else who decided it was an unforgivable personal slur made themselves look either stupid or petty. ”
There are other ways of making a point without falling back on the last resort of the inarticulate and self absorbed i.e. crudity and insult and to justify Jason's rudenss by invoking Sharron's alleged sense of humour bypass really does seem a desperate attempt to excuse his offensive behaviour. I wonder how those who consider his comments 'not too awful' would react if similar insults were directed at them.
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“Why is it a pity? What is it to you if I don't watch it?
It's not because of Craig that I stopped watching. I just find it all a bit tedious and the fact that when I did watch it, I thought Craig less interesting and less constructive than Jason is not why I stopped watching. Perhaps he does give more specific advice these days than a bland "darling, darling, darling, that was awful", which will be good, but how does that mean Jason is trying to be like him?”
I simply suggested you watch Craig on SCD to see how the put down is done, constructively and without malice - not for one minute was I suggesting that you should watch a programme you don't find enjoyable.
I watch both - always have done; which is why I feel qualified to comment on both 'nasty' judges.
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“I really couldn't care less about what Craig says, but I'm entitled to my opinion that he didn't give better feedback than Jason. He's just a bit blander and posher as far as I can tell. If you like that - lovely. Go and talk about him in the SCD forum. I'm bored with SCD fans coming into the DOI forum just to say that their favourite show is better.”
You are indeed entitled to an opinion - but as this is a forum those who disagree are entitled to air their views and their reasons for doing so. Furthermore we have as much right to post on the DOI forum as you. As for your assertion that SCD fans come into the DOI forum to compare the shows - when did I do this?
I've watched both shows since their inception - both shows have their individual strengthes and weaknesses and never have I suggested either to be superior to the other.
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“I don't think Jason is perfect, and what he said to Karen last year was not at all acceptable. Not that she behaved well either, but that was a discussion for last year. The very fact that people who claimed Jason was under-qualified are looking forward to Louie says it all.”
I know nothing of Louie Spence - but though time might prove me wrong, I cannot imagine anyone more off putting than Jason Gardiner.