Originally Posted by killingtime:
“You always seem to expect so much more of Josie than you do from John gussiecat but there were two people in that relationship, two people who broke it and two people who've continued to publicly take swipes at each other. In the very first interviews Josie gave she did pretty much say "It didnt work out, we were in the end too different but I hope he is doing well" that only really changed after the first Now interview John gave and subsequent tweets, everything that's happened since has just been tit for tat and reaction by one or the other but it takes two people to call a truce and a cease fire, not just one.
The response you're looking for now if it's the truth I'd like to see too but if it isn't i'd rather she was honest about what she feels because I didn't ever support either of them for being PC but because they were real and didn't edit their actions or words in order to present themselves in a good light.
Have I liked the digs at John in articles, no, have I liked the digs at Josie on twitter no, do I understand them, mostly but not all. It's just a real shame all around that it ended up like this.”
I actually dont have any expectations of either of them. Certainly not ones when I think they should be above saying what they really feel. However, for clarity I thoroughly disapproved hated teh attitude of John in the break up interview. I thought he was callous, cold and hurtful towards Josie in the way he insinuated it was her fault and let fly with the insinuations of her lashing out. This has been the cause of most unjust hate from SOME of John's fans. I hated the article about the gf , I thought it was a low blow and made to have maximum hurt on Josie. I hated the tweets he has made about her and the stupid you tubes, again designed to hurt. I hated the tweets before Christmas though Iadmit understanding he might have been peed off.
Josie is more than entitled to talk about her relationship with John in anyway she sees fit, she can tell the world he was the worst, most unloyal, unloving boyfriend in the world. Its her life. However, perhaps for me personally its a matter of taste, I know she gets asked questions, a lot of questions about John James, as the JJJ brand made her what she is today in a way. I am also intelligent enough to know that some of the things she says may be misrepresented in the press. However, she must have said some things and perhaps yes , if I was in her shoes, I would like to think I would have risen above it all and thought you know what I have a new boyfriend now, I am in a happier place, what it was is what it was and now I have moved on.
Of course it takes two to make a truce and agree to stop and i certainly understand I know nothing about what went on behind closed doors, however from twitter and mags at least John appeared to let it go for a while up until Dec. Whether it was the constant digs in the mags that made him lose it or the fact that she linked it to winning a competition that rubbed him the wrong way I dont know. I do know he was over the top in his response and a simple private reply would have sufficed but then again as you pointed out John and Josie never edited their feelings/behaviour on BB so why would they start now.
BTW I am almost positive I am not the only one who wishes Josie could find a way not to have yet another dig at John.