Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“I do think it's odd how looking smart, and appropriate somehow become 'glamorous' and 'slave to fashion.' One of the reasons UK companies have so few women in the board room is because there is still this antiquated view out there that your appearance is somehow nothing to do with the rest of you.”
Yes, UK companies have so few women in the boardroom because women just don't try hard enough with their appearance. It couldn't possibly be because there's a self-perpetuating boys' club in many companies, or because studies have shown that women are automatically perceived as either nice
or competent (as opposed to men, who are automatically perceived as both), or because many older men in particular still see women's place as being in the home. It's because women just don't
try hard enough.
I mean, how much effort do you think most
men in the boardroom put into their appearance? I doubt it's anywhere near as long as the average woman in business. But, of course, it's the
women who have to try harder. Men shouldn't be expected to put effort into anything other than business, but women should be expected to be flawless in every aspect of their life. I mean, really, how do you expect attitudes to change if you keep suggesting that women have a duty to get a 'makeover' and wear 'top drawer' clothes that add 'personality' (what does that even mean? the clothes I own that add personality would not be close to work-suitable.)
At the end of the day, the average woman in business probably already puts
way more effort into her appearance than the average man (God knows the businessmen I know aren't exactly top of the pile, looks-wise), so suggesting that businesswomen don't try hard enough with their appearance and that they should if they want to make it to the boardroom is actually kind of insulting. There is an
entrenched preference towards men in business - not necessarily a conscious one, but one that still holds sway over many decisions - and something tells me that this is not going to be suddenly rectified if women get up an hour earlier to do their makeup.