Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“Where do I say that I 'judge' her on her appearance?”
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“Margaret Mountford was hardly a model but she got the basics absolutely spot on with the result that you noticed the woman, not the terrible clothes.”
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“I have gone out of my way to say how much I admire Karen - and I do. I also feel, woman to woman, that she lacks confidence in her personal appearance.”
I completely agree with you here. She does lack confidence in her personal appearance - largely down to threads like this - which are full of vitriol and spite (regardless of how you dress the thread up!)
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“This is a discoursive thread about a television programme and I am commmenting on an area of interest to me - the way women in business present themselves. ”
But you don't simply talk about how women in business present themselves! Firstly this is a hateful thread focused on a particular business woman and secondly, and more importantly, you have plainly said that her apparent lack of effort in her appearance on the show detracts from 'noticing the woman'!
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“There is nothing remotely hateful, awful or sexist and as a regular reader of Karen's magazine and newspaper columns, I am pretty sure that Karen herself would appreciate this. If you were a reader of hers you would know that she does 'regularly comment' about her appearance,her weight, her family and many other things.”
If you had read my previous comment properly, you would have noticed that I stated that Karren does not talk about her weight/ clothes etc... when in a business capacity (I know she does in a personal capacity which why I agree with you when you say she is insecure about her appearance. This is particularly why I hate this thread - she will read it and become even more bloody insecure, when such insecurity really is not merited in my opinion!)
Karren is in a business capacity when working on the Apprentice and is thus there and has the right to be judged on her ability as an informed observer and that alone.
And no, I do not think Karren herself would appreciate your comment! Who are you kidding?!
I am a reader of hers actually (unsurprisingly!!)
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“Karen doesn't get picked on”
See thread title and a large proportion of the resulting posts.
See numerous other threads on this forum aimed at her appearance.
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“As for the old chestnut about comenting on men's suits - yawn. This is life. ”
That old chestnut?! Nobody, not once, has ever decided to draw some sort of link between Nick's appearance and his ability to do the job he is asked to do on the Apprentice, similarly Alan. This is life? How ignorant!
Originally Posted by penelopesimpson:
“It is hurtful to bandy such contentious words about when they clearly are not justified.”
They are justified in my opinion.