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#3301 |
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Fellow gays, I need some advice.
![]() How do I tell someone no without having to actually do or say anything and without being mean? My inability to say no is ridiculous, but I can't help it! Thanks in advance. ![]() I have trouble with that, I just say I'm not in the mood and look sad, so people asume I'm having a difficult time so leave me alone, and then I just smile
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#3302 |
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No in general or is a munter trying to stick his crayola in your tub and you don't want him?
I have trouble with that, I just say I'm not in the mood and look sad, so people asume I'm having a difficult time so leave me alone, and then I just smile ![]() , last weekend. But it was definitely one of those that you file under the heading of 'mistake'. I can foresee the awkwardness, we're all going out again tonight.I'm also rubbish at saying no in general. I'm basically just a big old walkover. |
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#3303 |
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Not exactly. You see, he did 'put his crayola in my tub', as you so eloquently put it
, last weekend. But it was definitely one of those that you file under the heading of 'mistake'. I can foresee the awkwardness, we're all going out again tonight.I'm also rubbish at saying no in general. I'm basically just a big old walkover. You could do it the easy way by lying and saying you're not ready for anything serious or just be honest and tell this guy he just isn't really compatible with you. |
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#3304 |
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And he is interested in you I presume?
You could do it the easy way by lying and saying you're not ready for anything serious or just be honest and tell this guy he just isn't really compatible with you. I'll try subtle hints that nothing is going to happen, if that doesn't work I'll just have to tell him. Ugh, conversations are the worst. |
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#3305 |
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Yeah he is interested.
I'll try subtle hints that nothing is going to happen, if that doesn't work I'll just have to tell him. Ugh, conversations are the worst.
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#3306 |
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Yeh sublte hints are the way to go, you could try dropping hintd that "relationships are overrated" or "I'm an NSA type of guy", although you don;t want him thinking he can be a regular
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#3307 |
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I don't really think he wants a relationship, just more sex. And after a few too many drinkypoos I cant really be trusted to keep my dignity. Blame it on the alcohol.
![]() ![]() With me at most I get double vision but can still tell hot from ghastly and if I'm any more drunk than that I just pass out. |
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#3308 |
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I don't really think he wants a relationship, just more sex. And after a few too many drinkypoos I cant really be trusted to keep my dignity. Blame it on the alcohol.
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#3309 |
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See I hear this all the time and I just can't believe it. What and how much of it are you drinking?
![]() With me at most I get double vision but can still tell hot from ghastly and if I'm any more drunk than that I just pass out. And I can tell who's hot and who's not but when I get that drunk I stop caring and my standards hit the floor. ![]() And I can't tell him just to do one. He's reasonably nice as a person. |
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#3310 |
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Yeah he is interested.
I'll try subtle hints that nothing is going to happen, if that doesn't work I'll just have to tell him. Ugh, conversations are the worst. However if a ugly guy comes up to me I just snarl and look them up and down. I'm sure he'd get the hint if you do the same!
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#3311 |
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If someone hot approaches me or checks me out I go into Rihanna-slut style.
However if a ugly guy comes up to me I just snarl and look them up and down. I'm sure he'd get the hint if you do the same!![]() I don't think I've ever snarled in anyones face though. I don't think I could be bold enough to do that.
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#3312 |
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If someone hot approaches me or checks me out I go into Rihanna-slut style.
However if a ugly guy comes up to me I just snarl and look them up and down. I'm sure he'd get the hint if you do the same!I'd just act flattered and say I wasn't out for a shag. Ahh, the slut drop. Sadly I've garnered more giggles than boners when I've done that
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#3313 |
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GUYS! Subtle hints worked a charm. AVOID EYE CONTACT!
![]() Although, I think I swallowed a chainsaw because my stomach is f*cked. I'm not eating today. Water water water.
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#3314 |
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GUYS! Subtle hints worked a charm. AVOID EYE CONTACT!
![]() Although, I think I swallowed a chainsaw because my stomach is f*cked. I'm not eating today. Water water water. ![]() Swallowed a chainsaw, I like that quote , How did he react?
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#3315 |
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My taste buds are f*cked aswell.
Swallowed a chainsaw, I like that quote , How did he react? That's how I feel everytime I've been on the sauce. It's never my head, only ever my stomach. |
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#3316 |
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On the surface he was cool and didn't try anything so I guess it's all good.
That's how I feel everytime I've been on the sauce. It's never my head, only ever my stomach. ![]() I never get hangovers really, unless I've drank enough drinkies to quench Africa's thirst. I woke up one time covered in my own vomit, and it was reddish-purple so my friend thought I'd slashed my throat or something
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#3317 |
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Join Date: Apr 2006
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Bumpage from page 2..
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#3318 |
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Join Date: Feb 2007
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Finally got round to watch this weeks New Normal, didn't find it as great as the previous episodes. Though the birth control scene with the granny and children is hilarious.
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#3319 |
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Don't think I can keep watching The New Normal. I find it totally one-dimensional and the characters are very unengaging.
It has some good lines though. |
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#3320 |
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Don't think I can keep watching The New Normal. I find it totally one-dimensional and the characters are very unengaging.
It has some good lines though.
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I really enjoy The New Normal. I love the acid tongued one liners and parts of it ring very true. (The mall scene etc.)
I'e been watching ahead and can safely say the sassy assistant Rocky is my fave, she needs her own show! |
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#3322 |
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I really enjoy The New Normal. I love the acid tongued one liners and parts of it ring very true. (The mall scene etc.)
I'e been watching ahead and can safely say the sassy assistant Rocky is my fave, she needs her own show!
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#3323 |
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You a Ke$ha fan by any chance with that username?
![]() Coincidently taken from my personal coming out anthem.
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#3324 |
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Yes.
Coincidently taken from my personal coming out anthem. ![]() ![]() I love the song too. And i love what she stands for. ![]() You seen her live? |
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#3325 |
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Can she actually sing for toffee though?
Lol... I mean autotune is one thing but... ![]() I do love her as well by the way! |
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