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I'm so sick of loneliness and one night stands. Some of my friends are getting engaged and buying houses... that's what I want

I just want a boyfriend.

I want cuggles.

Me too

-cuggles-

Yeah, she really is fab!

Well, I'm still cringing at the thought of it tbh, lol.



You know, what with you two both being Norther-ly, you could solve each others problem.

I actually love this song. I went out on Monday and it got played twice; this made my night.


Ahh that sucks! You'll find someone; and he'll be worth the wait!

Maybe he just hasn't checked his FB yet or something?

Things are a bit crazy for me in this department at the moment!

I heard it for the first time in the G-A-Y bar, and I was the only one singing along.

Awwh that's shit! Hopefully he's just not seen your message or even been on fb since you sent it! Hope he replies soon for you Paul

Tell me about it It's so depressing being the only one in your group of friends etc who isn't either in a relationship/engaged/moving in together/planning their lives...

Haha, nevermind a bf, I'd be happy just for some single guys to be interested in me for a change! I'm so sick of engaged guys and those in open relationships hitting on me and screwing with my mind What does a guy have to do to get some interest from the singletons
Agreed
lol at least it got the initial awkwardness out the way

Give grindr a go? My mate always has it on, like 24/7 and he's always got some interest.

He mostly uses it for one night stands, but I'm sure it has other uses.

You do meet some really awesome people on Grindr to be fair; a lot of freaks too mind, but I say this as someone who doesn't do the whole one night stand thing! (Nothing against anyone who does; it's just not me).

I went on Grindr.

All fat and 50 in my area, soon deleted.

You can filter by age! Lol! I have a limit on there of 26 I think.

Oh definitely, you can meet some nice guys on there


Lol, I'm not sure that sums up grindr's usership, try being on it, and like, going places?

There's definitely a subtle change in who's logged in the nearer you get to Soho..

The age limit thing didn't work for me... It wouldnt do the ranges!

You do get some nice guys, but after a while I forget to check in...

Yeah let's be lonely together


Lmao. I don't think Luke wants some depressive 22 year old


Pah people (mostly you ) have been telling me this for years!

Ooh what's crazy?


Thanks I'm hoping he's just not seen it or not been on fb. Even if he's straight (mostly likely, since 99% of guys I like turn out to be straight), I still think he'd be a good friend.

I know what you mean about getting some attention. The only attention I get in bars is from women and old men

Can you get Grindr on blackberry or is it that the app that's just on iPhone?
Ahh that's good to know!

I may just wait for Grindr till I'm in London then
Ahh well, hopefully if nothing else, then at least you guys can be friends

Haha it really sucks! It seriously screws with your mind when you start wondering why no single reasonable guy is interested in you

Haha! Have a I really said it to you a lot of times? I need to change my lines obviously. You will though; we all have to remain optimistic!

Try leaving Stockport

Try it around Victoria station... the flats around there seems to be very popular with gays

We shall, we never did get that hot chocolate.

We can be depressed together . Don't beat yourself down, I like an older man, lolol

I'l remember that .

I think you can get it on Blackberry, Adam. Just terrible though, I deleted it.

Not that you need it anyway, from the sound of things.


Yeah but you're cute so it's okay.

Haha, seriously though, don't sell yourself short, you really are a worthwhile guy. If people can't see that, they're the ones missing out.



What is it about the old men?

I got groped in Heaven t'other week, turned around with a smile, and it was some lecherous 45 year old, not the cute Spanish dude I'd been eyeing up all night.






You can get it on Blackberry too.

If you're in London, you'll have to join me on a night out.

Well, provided you're into getting drunk, and dancing!


Sounds like we need to make a thread field trip!

I tend to attract lots of old man attention too. It's really creepy isn't it?

I got asked by some 50 year old on Gaydar the other day if I offer escort services! I actually deleted the app after that (not that I ever used it other than to laugh at the creepy messages anyway)!

Well if you change your mind, I know a guy in Kings Cross..

Lol, that reminds me of the time I made a friend's son feel really uncomfortable..

He's a bit messed up and was moaning he couldn't find work, and I winked at him and said he'd make a good rent boy.

He really didn't know where to look bless him, lol, really didn't help the social anxiety he has.

It's fine, someday he'll look back on it and laugh!

Oooh I may just need to invest in this app, well in a couple weeks once I'm free

Deal I'm gonna be a total newbie to London so it'll be great to join someone else on a night out!! Haha I'm down with that though the dancing usually comes once I'm slightly inebriated due to my crippling shyness while sober
Haha knowing my luck, I'd download these apps then only get interest from the creepy old guys It's probably one of my biggest apprehensions about using those apps in case there's genuinely no guy that gets in touch

Yeah anyone who comes down this way is welcome with me on a night out, the more the merrier.

I always go with a couple of people, which generally makes it a good night I think.