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Old 27-04-2012, 22:25
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Yes.... But it ain't easy.
Oh. I was just messing around, I didn't mean it like that!

But yeah, it's not easy, and you don't have to do it until you feel ready x

^Thanks.

I feel I've already took too long though.
It's never too late sweetie.
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Old 27-04-2012, 22:33
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^Thanks.

I feel I've already took too long though.
No such thing <3.
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Old 27-04-2012, 22:43
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Hey Dags xD

Moving in with anyone cool?

Yeah, I'm okay thanks, feeling a lot better!
Just a friend. Known him for a few years

That's good. Sleep always makes things easier
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Old 27-04-2012, 22:46
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Hey Dags xD



Just a friend. Known him for a few years

That's good. Sleep always makes things easier
Cool, thought you might be inviting your potential beau..

And yeah, a good nights sleep is always useful.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:00
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I hope so.
Oh. I was just messing around, I didn't mean it like that!

But yeah, it's not easy, and you don't have to do it until you feel ready x

It's never too late sweetie.
I know you didn't mean it like that, 'tis ok.

...

Anyone watching Graham Norton show?

Zac Efron.... Ugly socks nonewithstanding... Phwoarrrrrrr!!
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:02
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Cool, thought you might be inviting your potential beau..

And yeah, a good nights sleep is always useful.
Potential beau? Pahaha, no! He is gay though!

Anyone watching Graham Norton show?

Zac Efron.... Ugly socks nonewithstanding... Phwoarrrrrrr!!
No, Alan Carr is where it's at.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:08
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I hope so.

I know you didn't mean it like that, 'tis ok.

...

Anyone watching Graham Norton show?

Zac Efron.... Ugly socks nonewithstanding... Phwoarrrrrrr!!
T.V is off. What made you notice his socks? Were you looking somewhere naughty?


Potential beau? Pahaha, no! He is gay though!


Lol, well that's a start!
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:15
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Lol, well that's a start!
Lol, no it'll ever happen xD
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:16
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Lol, no it'll ever happen xD
Fair enough.

D'ya ever feel lonely?

I'm getting frustrated by singledom I think.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:21
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Fair enough.

D'ya ever feel lonely?

I'm getting frustrated by singledom I think.
Same here.

Heck, not even relationship, I've now not had male contact in 9 months. :sleep:
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:22
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Fair enough.

D'ya ever feel lonely?

I'm getting frustrated by singledom I think.
Yeah, kinda... But I'm also not that bothered in a sense as its 'easier' than to juggle a relationship.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:24
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Same here.

Heck, not even relationship, I've now not had male contact in 9 months. :sleep:
I sometimes wonder whether I should just go slag around, I mean, it wouldn't be particularly difficult to do, and I've had the offers before, but I've never wanted to compromise my values before.

I'm kind of at the stage where I'm considering it..

Yeah, kinda... But I'm also not that bothered in a sense as its 'easier' than to juggle a relationship.
I suppose, but I'd happily juggle a relationship if it meant I had someone to cuddle up to at night.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:25
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I sometimes wonder whether I should just go slag around, I mean, it wouldn't be particularly difficult to do, and I've had the offers before, but I've never wanted to compromise my values before.

I'm kind of at the stage where I'm considering it..



I suppose, but I'd happily juggle a relationship if it meant I had someone to cuddle up to at night.
That is what I want most from life.

I mean, I could slag around as well, but I don't put myself in that situation, it'd be nice if somebody offered though,
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:28
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That is what I want most from life.

I mean, I could slag around as well, but I don't put myself in that situation, it'd be nice if somebody offered though,
I get offers, they're just not from guys that are particularly interesting to me (trying to be polite).

But yeah, I think I'd be very easy to err satisfy in that I'm the same as you, I'd be happy with a cup of tea and a cuddle lol.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:30
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I get offers, they're just not from guys that are particularly interesting to me (trying to be polite).

But yeah, I think I'd be very easy to err satisfy in that I'm the same as you, I'd be happy with a cup of tea and a cuddle lol.
Biatch (no I get what you mean)

I'm so not a normal teenager LOL. Which is a good thing, because I'm not getting girls pregnant. A cup of tea > sex with females.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:33
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Biatch (no I get what you mean)

I'm so not a normal teenager LOL. Which is a good thing, because I'm not getting girls pregnant. A cup of tea > sex with females.
100% with you there!

I didn't mean that to sound like it did, lol, sorry x
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:36
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100% with you there!

I didn't mean that to sound like it did, lol, sorry x
Ha, I'l make you a cup of tea and give you cuddles Jase.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:38
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It's not like I'd say no if it came with the right person. But as much as I want one I'm also happy not to be in one.

I guess it's just because I think my brothers and flatmates relationships seems very clingy and too much as they both practically live together. So it kinda of puts me off that you one can become so codependent. They both aren't in very long either, flatmates is only 3 months but it feels like way longer...! My flatmate and brother aren't in the same relationship btw xD
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:38
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Ha, I'l make you a cup of tea and give you cuddles Jase.
Aww, I'd return the favour too.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:39
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It's not like I'd say no if it came with the right person. But as much as I want one I'm also happy not to be in one.

I guess it's just because I think my brothers and flatmates relationships seems very clingy and too much as they both practically live together. So it kinda of puts me off that you one can become so codependent. They both aren't in very long either, flatmates is only 3 months but it feels like way longer...! My flatmate and brother aren't in the same relationship btw xD
I can understand that. With the right person though, it wouldn't seem as clingy. There are people out there who'd be happy to respect your individualism.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:53
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100% with you there!

I didn't mean that to sound like it did, lol, sorry x
Maybe you two should be together
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:53
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I can understand that. With the right person though, it wouldn't seem as clingy. There are people out there who'd be happy to respect your individualism.
Yeah, I mean it makes them happy, so who am I to begrudge that. But when I stand back and look at it it just feels too much for me. Not everyone will be like that though - so I guess I'm just unfortunate (from my PoV) to witness both, so closely all the time. Flatmate when I'm here and brother when I'm home. They are all very 24/7.

See, what's weird is while in general, I do want someone I also like my independence. I think its more as a case of not being a super open, confident person though. So I'd rather not fully commit to something if I can't see it lasting.

OMG, I soo want some Ben and Jerry's Karamel Sutra and Dough'ble Whammy ice creams right now! They look amazing!
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:56
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Maybe you two should be together
Lol, I thought he was yours?

Yeah, I mean it makes them happy, so who am I to begrudge that. But when I stand back and look at it it just feels too much for me. Not everyone will be like that though - so I guess I'm just unfortunate (from my PoV) to witness both, so closely all the time. Flatmate when I'm here and brother when I'm home. They are all very 24/7.

See, what's weird is while in general, I do want someone I also like my independence. I think its more as a case of not being a super open, confident person though. So I'd rather not fully commit to something if I can't see it lasting.

OMG, I soo want some Ben and Jerry's Karamel Sutra and Dough'ble Whammy ice creams right now! They look amazing!
I can understand that, and yes the Ben and Jerry's core things look scrummy.
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:57
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"Are you a lesbian?" "Trust me, if I was a lesbian, she'd be the last les-I'd-be-in"

Anyone watch 2 Broke Girls on E4?
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Old 27-04-2012, 23:58
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Maybe you two should be together
Oh, you are trying to find me something new after breaking my heart for a polish.
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