Oh jesus! Shonda really does like to think big!! I thought to start with

I felt a bit harsh after the ep this week saying that, but I really haven't warmed to her at all!

You speak such words of wisdom!! I wish I was able to trust my instincts more
Ahh I see what you mean! I sometimes wish I was a little bit more laid back and lived in the now a bit more rather than having detailed life plans
Well, I made a stand, though got reprimanded for it The only time I was ever in proper trouble at school silly teachers!!
lol probably best I avoid him then as I tend to make a complete tit of myself in front of guys with lush accents I seem to go all idiotic and day dreamy
Ooh I like that accent! Haha I'm like that with guys that have strong accents*
*providing I can understand them...some of you scots are difficult to understand

Jessie J put it better then me sweetheart, just be true to who you are.


In the long run you'll be happy though, just keep your eye on the prize. You know what you want, and you're working to get it, there's nothing wrong with playing a long game.

Not everyone can be the same, it'd be boring otherwise!


Aww, that sucks. You'd hope that they'd have like at least listened to your side of the story.


Haha, I don't think Paul would mind if you went day dreamy around him.

But yeah I definitely know what you mean.

Well, yeah I suppose, but your variation works just as well
Haha the only down side to playing this long game is sometimes you get that awful moment where it's like life is just passing you by and you're just a spectator

True, it would be a pretty dull world we live in if we were all sheep!!
Well it was kinda my fault for getting involved in someone else's issue, but I wasn't going to stand by and see a child be bullied! The teachers admitted if it was up to them nothing would be done, but school policy and all
lol he probably would if he saw me

Well you know, Jessie J can never be me.


It's kind of like driving, you're on the m25 in the slow lane, but it's okay, you're still getting where you're going, and actually, I bet you'll enjoy the journey a lot more than someone who gets there in ten seconds.


Aww, don't say that. Be confident.

Yup, there's only one Cakey
You really are a wise person Cakey! lol, I'd much rather enjoy a prolonged journey than get there in ten seconds
I do try be confident, but I tend to be quite a self-deprecating person for some reason

I think some would be thankful of that lol.


Exactly, so just remind yourself of that every now and then.


There's nothing wrong with self-deprecation, but just remember, people can only see what you show them...

I'm gonna try and grab some sleep I think, see ya on the flip side!

lol well us lot in here are thankful we have the one and only Cakey then
I'll bear that in mind
lol I've never really thought about it like that but it's a fair point!
Okies, night Cakey (and anyone else still around!) I'm off to get on with more assignments, oh the joys :yawn:

Lol naturally.

Although you could'nt miss his socks....bright yellow! (he was in a black suit.)

Haha, sounds like yous had fun yesterday, I'd have had no qualms of telling you every aspect of me, I already do

SO I'm sort of seperated pending being chucked, which sucks

WHAT? What has happened?

I don't know what's going on in his head frankly, it was all very sudden, it was about 2 in the morning, we were lying in bed after just... well you can imagine what came before the lying in bed, then he suddenly just springs it on me that we need time apart, and starts using crappy cliches from films! I would have discussed it rationally and where all this is coming from had he told me when we were on the couch watching TV but instead he waited till the early hours of the morning after we'd just finished screwing and then he tells me? what piece of s**t does that make him? So I told him in no uncertain terms to get lost.

All my mates are busy atm and as teh parents are now not gonna be back till Sunday night I'm on my own and I'm angry/upset

He texted me at 9 this morning but I haven't replied, I'm too f**ked off to see his face

Certainly something I've been told and discovered over the past few months is that when you have a bit more self-confidence you instantly become more attractive to people. I really think it's true.

Oh, bby, I really don't know what to say, I'm good at all other advice but potential break-ups aren't my thing at all =(, all you know is I'm always here for you, always will be here for you to talk, I know how you must be feeling though <3.

Just don't ignore him for too long though, he may have his reasons, not that it makes it okay.

Sorry to hear that Jack! Sounds like he's being an idiot; you're worth better if that's the kind of dirty trick he's going to pull.

I know you're annoyed, understandably so, but it might be an idea to invite him round to talk about it. I think it would help you to know where it came from.

Just remember though, it's his shit that's causing this. You're not to blame x


Confidence is hot, if it's not too much. You can definitely over do it.

Yeah, it's a funny old thing feelings aren't they? I've only been dumped twice before, once when I was like 9 and the other when I was 14 by this out-of-my-league girl, but it really didn't bother me because I got what I wanted from her but this time it really hurts if this is the direction we're going in.

I'm trying to work it out, I reckon he could want his single life back or possibly thinks he's in with a chance who I know for a fact he fancies, but this guy is 100% straight. Thing about D is he's very much a dreamer, thinks he can have anything he wants and if he doesn't get it then there's a problem and he thinks he'll find the solution.

Thanks guys, your being a lot more helpful than any other bellend I've spoken to today, and I don't think I need advice, just someone to listen to me bitch . I'm gonna call him in an hour and tell him to come round, I want some straight answers, we need to talk.

This isn't what I need man, I've got exams to focus on and now I've got this godforsaken mess, WHY THE F**K NOW?!!?

Oh definitely! I think it just shows when you're comfortable in yourself. And that's a good place to be!

I could so twist that.

I won't though lol.

This is going to sound really awful now, but well okay so it's my friends birthday and her boyfriend is organising the night out. Thing is, he wants to go Shoreditch to a 'straight' club, and I really feel uncomfortable about the whole thing...

I haven't been to a 'straight' club since I was 18, and I'm just worried I'm not going to be able to be myself.

Maybe this is it, he wants you to be studying something that isn't his cock

Sorry, I'm trying to make light of a not-so-nice situation, totally inappropriate.

No don't be daft, I could do with a chuckle and that did it

I can study I Am Legend, poetry, mathematics, Drama past papers, the USA/Law and Crime in the UK and politics in one hand and have his meat and two veg in the other, it's all about the juggling and balancing Luke

Just to interrupt your convo I agree, strutting yourself down a high street = hot

Walking down the high street with bland clothes, a depressed face and no confidence = not

Unless you pull of the gutter look I have right now which is strangely attractive

Good, I dun like hearing that you're upset hehe <3.

I'm sure it is, you seem to be kept busy though, I don't know how I could manage.

I know what my night tonight will entail though. -amazed-

The Voice? I shall be watching along with you. And I've got my second eldest niece over today, she'll cheer me up, bless the little fake angel, then I'll have bawbag over to explain so I'll have to put her on the computer (not mine, christ I don't want her exposed to smut and violence )

EDIT - Scratch calling my mate, how awkward would that be for her to sit and listen to me and him talking about the relationship

Aye, I'm not babysitting tonight either, so I'l be likely sloshed by the 3rd act, I'l be like GO AZDAM GOFGJF.

I dread to think what is on your computer, in all honesty, keep her away definitely.

Yeah, it'll be good for you to talk, let it all out of your system. Please do keep me informed though? <3