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Sam was really good! It's quite a good first show - can't wait to see Tyler James. Helps that he's quite hot
!Hopefully Adam and Tyler are just as good .
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#652 |
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They've been pretty bad so far tonight...
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I'd be self concious to drink the things I'd normally drink too, I see what Jase means. I usually get a bit drunked before I leave to make sure I'm not on edge, that's a good way to have a good night don't you think?
), I just meant he should try not let what people think of his drinks choice affect his enjoyment of the night too much ![]() Quote:
What do you normally drink? Pink gay juice?
I'm like Gaz, I actually feel more uncomfortable in gay clubs than "straight" clubs. ![]() I'm not actually sure why I feel that way, but it's just something I've noticed while being at Uni Probably as most of my friends are straight so it's just we usually end up at 'straight' clubs/bars...Quote:
I get a bit embarrassed about what I drink as well but after the first one I tend to no longer give a f**k.
I've only been to straight clubs so far in my life! so it doesn't bother me anymore thankfully If you ever go for the first time, be prepared to be like the 'fresh meat' ![]() Quote:
Just a question to anyone who has been/is at college and/or university, did you join the LGBT society? I'm thinking about doing it when I go but at the same time, I'm not sure that I'll fit in.
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I don't want to be just noticed because of my sexuality, I never want to have being gay as my USP in life, I don't want to be branded of my sexuality. When I came out it was because it had to be done and I couldn't live with it being a secret, but now I am out I want to be known for being me. xD
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Thanks guys for all your responses! It'll be fun going to Uni but I'm also quite worried about becoming really isolated their and that's the only reason that I was considering the LGBT society. I'm worried that if I don't then I'll become isolated and never meet fellow gays but I agree that trying to create it superficially probably isn't going to work. And I don't think I'd fit in become I visited them at the open day and they were all very loud and brass which really isn't me!
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Nope, I also never joined mine.
I don't think I'd enjoy it either, much for the same reasons as above. But I suppose they'll be a mix of those people and 'normal' people who are probably thinking like you aswell. |
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#656 |
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I feel like I'm the only person who doesn't watch The Voice ![]() Quote:
Ooh I'll needs to try me some of this pink gay juice
![]() I'm not actually sure why I feel that way, but it's just something I've noticed while being at Uni Probably as most of my friends are straight so it's just we usually end up at 'straight' clubs/bars... |
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#657 |
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Peanut Butter cookies anyone?
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#658 |
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Ahh I get what you mean! I'm not really sure what your usual drink is, but try not feel too self conscious and just order what you usually would. I've been told I order 'girly' drinks when I'm out and had many dodgy looks from the bar people (most likely because some of my female friends order more 'manly' drinks than me
) but I just kinda shrug it off and laugh about it with my friends! Can't really comment re: dancing as I only usually partake in this when moderately drunk and therefore don't care what others think of me but if you're with friends who've seen your dancing before just go for it ![]() Aww that's horrible stupid people making a fuss over nothing!! Well I hope if you end up going, that no one gives you any hassle ![]() Ended up at a place that did 50s/60s rock and roll which was pretty cool, but some guys tried to start, one even left shouting about 'them dirty gayzzz!!!!'111 It put me on edge the rest of the night! Quote:
What do you normally drink? Pink gay juice?
![]() I'm like Gaz, I actually feel more uncomfortable in gay clubs than "straight" clubs. I've actually had plenty of pink gay juices, as you call them lol. I definitely feel more safe and comfortable in gay place. Quote:
I get a bit embarrassed about what I drink as well but after the first one I tend to no longer give a f**k.
I've only been to straight clubs so far in my life! !Quote:
Just a question to anyone who has been/is at college and/or university, did you join the LGBT society? I'm thinking about doing it when I go but at the same time, I'm not sure that I'll fit in.
It felt so alien to me. I was talking about marches and sit ins, and they were talking about the village, g-a-y and so on. Quote:
Nah, I never joined it.
Only because and I know it probably comes across as patronising/shallow or rude etc etc. But I don't want to be just noticed because of my sexuality, I never want to have being gay as my USP in life, I don't want to be branded of my sexuality. When I came out it was because it had to be done and I couldn't live with it being a secret, but now I am out I want to be known for being me. xD I don't like that so many people dismiss it as just another part of who they are, but really, who you share your life with is, is SO important... Quote:
Peanut Butter cookies anyone?
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I hate football! And it's the bloody Old Firm today, traffic will be horrendous! Btw has anyone seen Shelter before, I watched it last night and thought it was the best gay film I've ever seen, miles better than Latter Days!
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I did initially, but they were more interested in a night out, than political change, I wanted to change the fact that I was at the most homophobic university in the city, they wanted to shag around.
It felt so alien to me. I was talking about marches and sit ins, and they were talking about the village, g-a-y and so on. ![]() That was a long ass talk yesterday, it didn't really get anywhere, I was probing him for a decent reason and all I gt was all these trivial things, if they mattered so much to him, why didn't he bring them up before? So we just agreed to go our own ways a couple of months. |
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I hate football! And it's the bloody Old Firm today, traffic will be horrendous! Btw has anyone seen Shelter before, I watched it last night and thought it was the best gay film I've ever seen, miles better than Latter Days!
![]() (Not to tar all footie fans the same but I've found a pattern of the above) |
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Ah right. Sounds to me that they're really panto damish. There's nothing wrong with being like that but linking this with what I said, it's a bit sad basing your whole personality around your sexuality, of course it does mean something, but I wouldn't like it if my friends just knew me as Jack the bisexual, to them I'm crazy Jack or wee Jack or feisty Jack
![]() That was a long ass talk yesterday, it didn't really get anywhere, I was probing him for a decent reason and all I gt was all these trivial things, if they mattered so much to him, why didn't he bring them up before? So we just agreed to go our own ways a couple of months. I love Shelter as well Daz, for the sake of it not basically being a 90 minute stereotyped porno like most gay films. |
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Shelter is a good film.
Have you all seen Get Real? I enjoyed that one too.
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Ah right. Sounds to me that they're really panto damish. There's nothing wrong with being like that but linking this with what I said, it's a bit sad basing your whole personality around your sexuality, of course it does mean something, but I wouldn't like it if my friends just knew me as Jack the bisexual, to them I'm crazy Jack or wee Jack or feisty Jack
![]() That was a long ass talk yesterday, it didn't really get anywhere, I was probing him for a decent reason and all I gt was all these trivial things, if they mattered so much to him, why didn't he bring them up before? So we just agreed to go our own ways a couple of months. Sorry to hear he's been a bit of a douche about things, but, hopefully it's onwards and upwards for you .Quote:
Shelter is a good film.
Have you all seen Get Real? I enjoyed that one too. |
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I'm at a place now where I realise there was nothing wrong with those guys, if anything, it was me that was in the wrong, I should have been getting involved in the n.u.s, not the lgbt society...
Sorry to hear he's been a bit of a douche about things, but, hopefully it's onwards and upwards for you .
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What's the N.U.S?
![]() Don't get me wrong, they could have got involved in the politics, but they chose not to... |
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Shelter is a good film.
Have you all seen Get Real? I enjoyed that one too.I went on a LGBT movie run last year after coming out, I think I've seen all the main ones now. Mysterious Skin was horrible.
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I watched Get Real last night, I'm on a bit of a lgbt film binge just now. I really want to see weekend but will have to wait until I turn 18
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I watched Get Real last night, I'm on a bit of a lgbt film binge just now. I really want to see weekend but will have to wait until I turn 18
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I watched Get Real last night, I'm on a bit of a lgbt film binge just now. I really want to see weekend but will have to wait until I turn 18
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Why? lolol
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Yeah, why?
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It's an 18 and the only place I can find it is on amazon and my bank have a child safety thing with amazon which takes ratings into account and wont let you buy it without a lot of work.
.I don't think I've bought a movie in AGES lol. |
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It's an 18 and the only place I can find it is on amazon and my bank have a child safety thing with amazon which takes ratings into account and wont let you buy it without a lot of work.
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You could torrent it. I don't condone such behaviour or confirm or deny whether I'd do the same obviously but yeah. ![]() Quote:
Are you for real? Okay you definitely need a night out at Heaven with me
! ). From what others of you have been saying; I actually felt pretty comfortable even though it was new to me. It's nice to be able to dance together and have a kiss without anyone batting an eyelid!
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I watched Get Real last night, I'm on a bit of a lgbt film binge just now. I really want to see weekend but will have to wait until I turn 18
![]() I struggled to take it seriously because, after living in Nottingham, I couldn't see past all the huge geographical mistakes
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stupid people making a fuss over nothing!! Well I hope if you end up going, that no one gives you any hassle

