The DS Gay Members Thread (Part 8)

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BBWorldWideFan

03-09-2012

The thing is Daz is that these people don't care. They don't care about their education, or being excluded, because as I said earlier, they are future criminals and scroungers.

You never know, maybe I'll be able to s**t on their heads in the future

ChristmasCake

03-09-2012

Originally Posted by BBWorldWideFan:
“They wouldn't have said it was just a "throwaway comment" if it was a racist comment

The little thugs (different ones today) were giving me more aggro today, the word bank was "cocksucker", "AIDS" and "queer" my first thought was to ignore it which I did.

Just when I came out of school, I saw one of them alone so went straight up and confronted them, and they were lost for words... I will admit that it felt good.

It's bad enough making homophobic comments but to not having the balls say it to my face made it even worse.

Part of me isn't bothered, because really why should I care about what a bunch of mini criminals and future scroungers think of me? But then another part of me thinks why should I listen to them spit bile at me?

All very frustrating tbh ”

You need to tell someone at school, that isn't on at all.

They should not be allowed to get away with that sort of behaviour!

Originally Posted by daznov11:
“It's horrible that you had to do that but you shouldn't feel bad. It's the system that sucks and that puts you in the disgusting situation were you have to do that to get the treatment that you deserve from the start! But it's good news
that your complaint will now get the proper attention it deserves!
”

Hopefully

GeekyGemini

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“So I went to the police station after not hearing anything for 48 hours, worried that they'd close the case. The desk clerk seemed very nonchalant about the whole thing, and laughed at my worry, saying I'd be lucky to get a response in 48 hours. I expressed my surprise having been told I'd be seen at 10 am the day previous.

Anyway, she read the notes and asked me if I knew the offender, so I said yes, then assuming we were friends, she said, "Oh it just sounds like a throwaway comment made in the heat of the moment."

I told her I certainly didn't feel that way and left in disgust.

When I got home I made a complaint via my local constabulary website, and lo and behold, I'm now seeing a hate crimes officer on Friday.

I really wish I didn't have to go there, and suggest that I was mistreated by the police because of my sexuality, but if I hadn't they wouldn't have even paid attention...the faintest chance of being sued, and they contact me within hours...it's horrendous .”

That's awful that you felt you had to do that in order to get something done about it

They should've treated your complaint in the correct manner from the start

Hopefully you're treated better by them next time

javjamoll84

04-09-2012

Calling from London!

Cakey it's awful to hear that the person at the desk was basically dismissing your complaint. All enquiries should be dealt with the same. Clearly if it effected you it wasn't just a 'throwaway comment'. I hope you get seen to better with your second complaint.

On our was to the Harry Potter Studios

but nearly caught the wrong train to Watford. Oops.

ChristmasCake

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by javjamoll84:
“Calling from London!

Cakey it's awful to hear that the person at the desk was basically dismissing your complaint. All enquiries should be dealt with the same. Clearly if it effected you it wasn't just a 'throwaway comment'. I hope you get seen to better with your second complaint.

On our was to the Harry Potter Studios but nearly caught the wrong train to Watford. Oops.”

If you're in Watford, you should come see me at work, I'm only like a 10 minute drive away

ChristmasCake

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by GeekyGemini:
“That's awful that you felt you had to do that in order to get something done about it They should've treated your complaint in the correct manner from the start Hopefully you're treated better by them next time ”

Exactly, I'm not trying to be a drama queen here, I just want to press charges against someone for what I consider to be a hate crime!

BBWorldWideFan

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“Exactly, I'm not trying to be a drama queen here, I just want to press charges against someone for what I consider to be a hate crime!”

If trolls on twitter/FB can be arrested then so should this dude you're referring to!

Regarding you earlier comment, I have told people, and there's also a few oher gays/bi's/lesbians in the school too (only two of us are out though)

But everyone always says "that's terrible that people are homophobic"

Well... yeah I know, but I'm looking for a solution!

It's not a big problem for me tbh but it still pisses me off. I wonder why they're so obsessed with who I like anyway, maybe THEY want to shag me

(not that I would!)

javjamoll84

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“If you're in Watford, you should come see me at work, I'm only like a 10 minute drive away.”

Lol, if only I had more time.

A DS Gay thread meet up.

ChristmasCake

04-09-2012

Originally Posted by BBWorldWideFan:
“If trolls on twitter/FB can be arrested then so should this dude you're referring to!

Regarding you earlier comment, I have told people, and there's also a few oher gays/bi's/lesbians in the school too (only two of us are out though)

But everyone always says "that's terrible that people are homophobic"

Well... yeah I know, but I'm looking for a solution!

It's not a big problem for me tbh but it still pisses me off. I wonder why they're so obsessed with who I like anyway, maybe THEY want to shag me (not that I would!)”

To be fair, in most schools/colleges, what they've said to you is enough to get them suspended.

GeekyGemini

05-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“Exactly, I'm not trying to be a drama queen here, I just want to press charges against someone for what I consider to be a hate crime!”

I really hope that you are more satisfied with the treatment you receive this time Jase

Hopefully they'll treat it as seriously as they should have from the beginning!

daznov11

05-09-2012

Can't believe how excited I am for the new Dallas...yet I still can't wait

LudwigVonDrake

05-09-2012

^I'll give it a watch. Might tide me over until Glee returns.

daznov11

05-09-2012

Originally Posted by LudwigVonDrake:
“^I'll give it a watch. Might tide me over until Glee returns.”

Well I'm watching it just now and think it's definitely worth keeping up with...never even looked at the old show but this seems like it'll be my new brothers & sisters

Plus the new J.R. and Christopher are nothing to sneer at

chinchin

06-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“To be fair, in most schools/colleges, what they've said to you is enough to get them suspended.”

Happy Birthday CC!

Joni M

06-09-2012

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ChristmasCake

06-09-2012

Originally Posted by chinchin:
“Happy Birthday CC!”

Thanks Rob!.

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Aww, yay cake!

Thanks birthday twin

BBWorldWideFan

06-09-2012

Happy Birthday Jase!

GeekyGemini

06-09-2012

Happy Birthday Jase

I'll need to buy you a belated Birthday drink when I get down there!

daznov11

06-09-2012

Happy Birthday Jase

! Have a great day

daznov11

06-09-2012

Tennis related, spoilered just in case anyone didn't see it last night -

Spoiler

javjamoll84

06-09-2012

Happy Birthday Cakey!

Originally Posted by daznov11:
“Tennis related, spoilered just in case anyone didn't see it last night -

Spoiler

Shame that Roddick is gone. I was hoping he might get a little further

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Spoiler

GeekyGemini

06-09-2012

Originally Posted by daznov11:
“Tennis related, spoilered just in case anyone didn't see it last night -

Spoiler

Shame that Roddick is gone. I was hoping he might get a little further

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Spoiler

Originally Posted by javjamoll84:
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Indeed! but glad that Murray and Berdych got through! Exciting times but I'm stuck on who to cheer on!

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Spoiler

ChristmasCake

09-09-2012

I'm a little bitndrunnj, I went to a wedding Ann I had a button too. Uh to drink, ci wore a Johnn Travolta typensuitnandn looked amazing. I thought I was outed share this informations,

I"'m going to sleep now. Night everyone. X.

BBWorldWideFan

09-09-2012

Originally Posted by ChristmasCake:
“I'm a little bitndrunnj, I went to a wedding Ann I had a button too. Uh to drink, ci wore a Johnn Travolta typensuitnandn looked amazing. I thought I was outed share this informations,

I"'m going to sleep now. Night everyone. X.”

A little... no way

You sleep it off Jase, you drunken mess

GeekyGemini

09-09-2012

Awwh well it certainly sounds like you've had a great night

Though I certainly won't envy the hangover you're likely to have tomorrow

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