Hmm I don't know, probably nothing out of that list - certainy not the middle two. Not sure I could accurately sum it up in just one phrase. Besides it'd only be wishful thinking on my part.

Ok I won't double-barrel.

Younger or older?

Yep, either Himbo or Jack, whatever tickles your fancy

I'd say 2 years either side of mine would suit me fine.

30 isn't old anyway, that's how old my fella is.

How old are you Adam, and is his name Steve -BA DUM TISCH-

I'm away to bed, can't wait for Friday, that's when my week off from the goulag begins

Aww thanks Adam, and Jack I should ask you the same questions. Which from your list is your ideal?

I know you didn't ask me but I love a cuddley cub any about?

Haha it's not. And I'm 20.

Yeah 30 isn't old, I'm getting ever closer

I've started counting backwards at birthdays.

In gay years I'm practically dead.

I don't have much preference but I'd prefer a beefcake over anything else. I don't like the pretty boys because they're more often than not quite bitchy.

Personality wise it would appear going by my track record that I prefer a more masculine guy, one who can handle me, if they can't then I'd walk all over them

Adam 10 years older? you've scored

@Jase don't be daft, as long as you still look the part then there's no age cutoff

What does that one entail? I'm not really up on the gay lingo.


Don't fret... trust me its not as bad as it seems.

Scott is definitely the best on Radio 1. I'm in the habit of listening to Innuendo Bingo and Tap End at work and doing my best not to laugh too loud!


Haha well I definitely think so. It was actually quite difficult for me to come to terms with it at first; I think because I worried how people would perceive the age gap (especially my mum and dad). Getting round that has definitely changed my perceptions of such things though. He's really lovely and we make each other happy and that's all that matters at the end of the day!

Just found out that apparently today is National Coming Out Day.

I never really used to take that stuff seriously to be honest, but like, I'm starting to notice it a bit more now..


A cub is like, a younger version of a bear?


I'm not really fretting as such, but you know I'm sensitive to it.


I only really listen to Nick, I dunno whether it's cause I see him out sometimes or he's one of us (I know Scott is too), but like, I just like him...saying that, Fearne Cotton is like my guilty pleasure.


Aww!


I'm a bit late for that now, lol, but I saw that too.

So err, I tried grindr, just out of curiosity, and was met with a barrage of people offering me various sexual acts.

I don't even have a piccy on there, for all they know I could be..like, Shrek or something..

I also saw a work colleague on there, who I've tried to shamelessly flirt with, but it would be totally awks if I talked to him on there, then saw him at work!

Ooh I see.


I understand, I was just the same.


Yikes now that would be awkward. That Grinder thing sounds really creepy though.

I've contemplated using just a normal dating site but I doubt it'd work.

Yeah I don't like the sound of it either, according to Luke it's filled with creeps

Plus if I found a shag I liked I'd get attached and the truth is you're VERY unlikely to meet a nice guy on grindr, they just want a quick f**k.

I actually found my boyfriend on Grindr as well!

I agree though in general it's pretty sleazy. The reason we hit it off was because neither of us were like most of the people we were coming across on there.

I have met a couple of real creeps before from it.

Adam you better give me some anecdotes because you know I want to know

I don't mind creeps as long as they're hot.

Interrupted what?

-Looks innocent- No I don't

Aww thanks.


Yup, for 364 days. And occasionally when some smart arse reminds you, but its easily forgotten.


Same here.



'course you do!
I'm assuming that Jammy is implying that they were making 'the beast with two backs'.

Yeah I do don't I

Anyone watch Watchdog? there's a nice looking reporter on there, I'd pounce on him in a heartbeat

No, but I can imagine.

There was a nice guy anchoring the local BBC news the other morning. Might have to start watching it regular.

Some of the news reporters are about 40 but in good shape, there's one who's particularly tidy

Total boner killer but I think Kate Silverton is FINE

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...ove_hearts.svg

BTW here's the hot Watchdog reporter... with Ron Weasley

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/i...UIcp2zDoAiiFQ5