My Macedonian pride runs deep!

I was just on Skype with my GF and she was with her close friends who were playing a few Eurovision songs from this year, go figure.

Ok, after about 2 years i am still genuinely confused about your sex and sexuality

Here is a clue, both have changed over time.

So from a gay guy, you are now a straight girl? But I thought you had a girlfriend.

I'm confused. Or we're you a straight guy to start?

Well technically I was a gay guy to start off with but since I started transitioning at the age of 16 you could say I'm a straight girl now only my GF who I recently hooked up with is also a MTF so it's very complicated, but like they say you can't help who you fall in love with.

I feel pretty awkward talking about this stuff but if you're genuinely interested then I don't mind.

Interesting.

I once kissed a transitioner when rather drunk at a club, thinking it was a girl. I still amn't sure which way they were going.

Well they must have looked pretty convincing, some of them just look like blokes wearing wigs.

She had boobs and a willy

Ah, so she was pre-op then? How did you find out that she had male genitalia?

I've always been under the impression that you're not sure which way you're going either.

Why does this not surprise me

i have to tell someone.. i was channel hopping earlier and came across moviejuice on stv which was doing a film special on the release of prometheus.. the alien prequel.. it had an interview with a scottish actress in one of the roles.. i have the strangest feeling i met her in a past life.. well, that jogged my memory and i then remembered meeting this actor when they were in the channel 4 tv series the book group.. i looked up imdb to see what they were up to now and found all this.. http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0564920/ i wonder if he remembers talking to me in groucho st judes 10 years ago..

Well she was dancing with me and then grabbed my hands and put them in her pants. Needless to say I ran straight out the place. Lucky they didn't get a punch!

They were obviously out to trick people

I think the incident has made me the way I am today

Well just to clarify I'm not one of those people, it's an awful thing to do.

I did mention the fact that I got wolf whistled last week when I went out in a pair of shorts but obviously those people have no idea.

It will almost certainly be brought up in the best mans speech in a few weeks. My father will be mortified!

I'm sure you look spiffing in a pair of short shorts

Aww ain't you a charmer.

Off to Norwich again tomorrow to see my bestie.

Is that me?!

Nah, work again here - one of these days though......

I'm staying round hers so I'll be there on Saturday too.

I'm still hoping for the day when we unexpectedly walk past each other making eye contact without fully realisng who we are until a few moments later.

That sounds almost romantic! But you know that I'll just run up to you in a flying smoosh-hug

Just so as you know

Just make sure you know it's 100% me to prevent yourself from an awkward moment like in that Specsavers advert.

I think we could have so much fun together though.

I think we just might - I'm always good for a bit of salacious gossip (and sometimes, it's even true! )

I'm actually close to tears at the moment, after months, nay years, of dodgy internet connection, plusnet found that BT had been artificially limiting my connection, they asked for the limit to be taken off it, and sometime in the past hour they did just that

I've immediately gone to BBC iPlayer and watched some of the contest back, Pastora reaching out to me from inside my laptop was just sublime! Is this what it's been like for all you normal people all along?

Just a shame that I can't stay up all night glued to youtube! I've missed out on so much .....

Does anyone here follow the Bundesvision Song Contest?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bundesvision_Song_Contest

It has such a wide array of music, with successful songs from genres such as metal, hip-hop and Jan Delay.

If anyone does know anything, when are the dates and other information published? I have a fondness for German music, and so it would be great to be able to watch it.

I didn't think it was taken too seriously? But I stand corrected, may watch it if I remember this year. Should be interesting