Originally Posted by
ktnim:
“As I have said before,I don't see it anymore as I don't look on twitter or ds for it.Double standards has often played a part with those 2 even before the split.One rule for one one rule for another.I have asked myself ,as ppl that like and support Josie have been accused of ignoring her failings and bad points,of blindly following her,of being exactly like her so know no better.My answer is that I can see her faults,I can see her failings,I am not really like her except maybe a sense of humour.
When BB was on ppl dissected,studied and debated their actions,good or bad.Bar a few baiters all opinions were welcomed as we could see for ourselves what was happening ( mostly as even though there was 24hr livefeed we didn't see it all as cameras would go to other rooms,blank out convos and of course we only saw some diary room enteries and these were edited ) so opinions changed daily,hrly.even every minute as it all unfolded.
When they came out we saw tweets, twitcams ,mag interviews.tv interviews,docu's etc and still we discussed but it was less real and more staged.Even PA's were just a snippet and not a real human situation
Now all we can do is discuss again what we see & read and if we meet Josie what we feel.The rest is supposition. I have looked at both their actions and decided where I wanted to be.There was no ultimatium for me to do this but I had always been a Josie supporter first.I chose not to support both seperately but can't see the problem if ppl do that or just support John.
The belief that John is * poor John * has been about since BB.Whereas Josie losing her father at 10 and the disparate childhood she had have been used as reasons why she is a BAD & Violent person.They say she is not empathetic yet show no empathy for her.I would say that the fact Josie chose not to mention her fathers death on BB unlike John & Sunshine shows that she didn't want to go down the * poor me * route( I am not saying they did it for that purpose either , but she has been accused of manipulating ppl whilst on BB ),She did it when she left as it had come out along with the stories of her gran
She is now entering a new phase of her life , with a guy who is also doing the same.They are both building a new home together and working hard for their own careers.Stability has come to Josie and she is living her life now with her fiance,friends and family all together this time & beside her. This means that they aren't glued together,tweeting out pics 24/7,not following a path or behaviour set out by others but by themselves. If you like someone it doesn't mean you have a right to tell them how to live or behave,and to diss Luke when you don't even know the guy is childish.I don't,didn't and won't diss Sherrie whether she is or isn't with John.As for him I don't wish him ill,what he does is his own business & again no one has the right to tell him what to do or how to live either. I do however agree with you about his behaviour Ferfs but believe he is her past and should stay there,not be discussed in here
And Breatheeeeeeee 
Wow that just flowed,will never do that again and can't be assed to discuss it on here either ”
I'll have my say and keep on talking!
It is ridiculous how people suggest that Josie supporters follow her blindly, especially when those same people excuse John for terrible things he's said and done to Josie specifically. I don't agree with Josie on many things, I just choose to talk about the things I like about her, as we're all human and even though she likes dogs, she's allowed that view even if it's wrong.
And people who feel she needs to live her life the way THEY think she should need to shut up. So many people seem to think they know what's best for Josie better than she knows herself. She is gaining the stability she's craved, has a man who loves her and she loves back, a dog, a house, still making decent money, getting to spend more time with friends and family, and is happy.
It really is sad that so many of her "fans" are so sad and disappointed about her happiness.
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