Originally Posted by Diddididi:
“how is it fake,,,we do not have an admin called Joanne we have a member called Joanne and an admin called Jodine and they very different people, you were advised by the admin in question and you know it is all on a private group and for that reason I cannot post it here and you know what even if I could I wouldn't because I not that kind of person...but if I did everyone would see just how you reacted to no tagging request
I have already stated I believe it was totally unfair this matter was brought her in the first play all you need to do was message me as I vouched for you and I would have looked into it
I really liked you and had every admiration for you before this but you have the inability to at least listen to my point of view, I know you are regular and unfortunately due to things I haven't been able to join in as much I would like, I love the forum, but i feel now it wouldn't be my place to be here
so thank you everyone and take care
and again I am so, so sorry it was brought to here a all ...it should not have happened...i really feel for you all being dragged into this”
This is now my FINAL say and I will not respond to any more posts about this.ANY rules regarding Loys Forever ceased to apply to me AFTER my membership was terminated right.The cull started after the incident.During the cull I had no access to the group and NOBODY contacted me even to reprimand me of my mistake which to me would have been reasonable.I had to wait until the following day to see if I am a member to make a complaint and to speak to you.Ask ellemay and tooty I spent the night looking for your FB names as this was a FB matter.In the morning I was no longer a member of Loys Forever.I did not resign,it was not my choice to leave.I was expelled and no explanation given and no access to the group.Inorder to talk to you about it which you are right about I had to be a member and bound by the pivacy and rules.Once that membership got taken away I did not have to follow any rules,I owed nothing,no loyalty and there was no reason to protect anyone.I cant then bring you 'gossip' as a non member.If my membership stayed I would have made a post in Loys to ask to speak to you before anyone else and resolve the issue within the group.
If you want to blame anyone,then blame the person who culled and terminated my membership without reasoning,thinking about the implications or speaking to you who seconded me there first.My status with Loys and the dispute with the group changed when I ceased to be a member and I could tell anyone or tell John James fans on the JJAT as the privacy rules stopped applying to me.
I couldnt believe anyone could be so naive to cull me after an incident without realising I can be a liabilty.That was proper under- estimating me and a jugement of error.I had to stay in the group until it was sorted.The big lessons are ; the whole group can enforce rules,a rule break should be dealt with by admin not everyone posting and liking posts,that is ganging.Admin should talk to rule breakers and warn them if neccessary(I had to be listened to not dismissed ie 'get a grip').How can you cull a person after an incident like that,you take away their loyalty.
I am a policy proffesional.I just used your rules as you set them.If you cant have procedures to implement them that is not my problem.