It just shows you the way the show sets up the contestants the way the want without consideration for what's best for them. As an example Paige confirmed in the press today that she was told what song to sing and it was not her choice, she also told the producers she was scared of heights and they shoved her about 20 feet in the air. How to make a contestant feel comfortable not I dont think that is the way they should be treating a 14 year old.