practically falling out, but become "offended" when you stare at them?

Dave Chappell compared it to dressing up like a cop out in public and being offended when someone else assumes you are a police officer.

It is a pretty funny sketch lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature...&v=8K1KHqi9bXc

I assume you mean girls or women.

The answer is simple - because they choose to.

How can little chicks find low-cut shirts and miniskirts small enough?

It's because they want to look nice for men

they go shopping.

I dunno about short skirts and low cut tops, but here's a chick in a cute hat and boots (well, actually only one boot...)

http://www.fotosearch.com/CSP620/k6208256/

chicks? wow that takes me back. Has there been a sixties revival? Come to think of it it was regarded as a tad dumb even then in my circles.

I'd like to see this. Personally, I've never seen a chick wearing a low cut shirt or a mini skirt, but I'll keep an open mind til I see one...oh, oh, ooooo, ok, I see what you're doing. I get you. You don't actually mean chicks, do you? You're just after an opportunity to be a little misogynistic.

If someone you didn't like the look of was staring at you, would you get offended?

But why give men all sorts of abuse when they catch us looking?

Agreed. I got called a perv once by an irate lass with hardly anything on.

Were you doing anything, like licking her bum or something or did you get called a perv just for looking?

You just need to find the line between a quick, reasonable glance and an unsettling, leery ogle. It really isn't difficult unless you are some kind of slavering beast.

I was looking, well leering I suppose. It's not a crime to look, or leer, was a red hot day and honestly she couldn't have worn any less.

deleted goonst beat me to it.

Exactly! its one thing having a quick glance but when someones staring at your chest for ages with their gob hanging open its rather unnerving.

Must be careful in future then. Well this was 5 or 6 years ago.

Chris, going by your own description you're a 51 year old bloke who is 5'3" and 16st, you have a wonky eye, toe nails that would make Godzilla weep, you wear the same underwear for days at a time and you rarely shower.

Have you ever considered the poor lass was a little creeped out by someone of your description standing there leering at her?

Sounds so appealing when you describe him like that

If it was hot then she wasn't dressing for any man, was she? A bloke in nothing but shorts doesn't get this amount of threads. I suppose that's because a bloke in next to nothing is just dressing for the weather. No questions asked.

Well maybe but calling me a perv wasn't very nice. All men look and any who say they don't are liars!!

Usually with me it's a quick glance from the corner of my eye.

It's not my fault they have their boobs hanging out for everyone to see.

I wear Jesus sandals and socks in summer so they can't see my toe-nails!!

I never get abuse, I usually get a smile back.

In my experience a woman is only going to get annoyed if you make her feel uncomfortable. If you don't have the grace to confine your look to an admiring glance and then move on then you probably deserve a bollocking.

The idea that women should have to cover their skin for men to behave like civilised human beings should be confined to the past where it belongs.