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Take no notice of those on here who cast judgement in a selfish and negative manner - you mother has a moral right to every penny she gets, and should feel beholden to none for that money. |
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people who are comparing her benefits amount with someone who works are missing one key point, if she could and still work she would still be entitled to some of the benefits anyway thus pushing her income up higher anyway, this cap system is far far too arbitrary
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I am not well versed in the benefits system but could your Autistic Brother claim DLA and Benefits in his own right? It might be a complicated arrangment but get the landlord to split the rent between your mother and your Brother, as Both will have individual benefit caps. Another option that you might consider, is your mother claiming that the house is no longer suitable for her disability and she needs to live in adapted accomodation. This should, give her some sort of council housing priority and if she gets into a council house. It might be cheaper than renting privately. Good luck. |
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not much to add save the fact that a pre tax income in the region of £37k should be plenty to live off.
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if she were working earning £760pw net she wouldn't be entitled f/a in benefits. but notwithstanding this the only baring it has on the discussion is that the people saying the £500pw is comparable to an earned income of ~£37k should knock a couple of grand off. it doesn't fundamentally change the argument. |
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I haven't seen or heard from my dad in a number of years, he is the father to me and my eldest bro who is Autistic. When my mum left him she didn't ask for his help and neither did he offer it. Now me and my brother are over the age of 18 and are adults he has no interest in helping out and even if he was still around he probably wouldn't anyway.
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The problem is - the country's skint too. |
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Totally uncalled for, I'm alright Jack, smug, call it what you will. Why do such feelings infuse the morality of so many in our country these days? Such a shame...... |
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I really do wonder what goes on in your mind and how it processes inputs. The only point I was making was that I've always practiced what I preached. If I wanted something, I saved up for it. When I've had money over, I threw it at the mortgage. I don't think debt is a good thing for people or countries. I'm allright Jack because I didn't crank up credit cards, buy holiday homes or buy-to-lets at the top of the market, designer clothes etc etc. I suppose that's it. To someone like you, prudence is something to be ridiculed. |
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If your argument is that this figure is an inadequate safety net in this economy, in 2012, or 2013, then I don't think the problem is your politics. I think the problem is that you lack perspective. The family concerned will no doubt have to budget to be well fed, and to keep warm in the winter. Holidays seem unlikely. I could be describing 50% of families in the UK at this moment. |
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I'm glad that someone else can see the facts. The fact is the benefits she recieves at the moment allow her and my brothers and sisters to receive a fairly comfortable life, as in they are clothed, fed, and have a roof over their head, they don't have money for the latest gadgets and gizmos, they don't holiday three times a year, or have sky tv or mobile contracts but the fact remains that ok so the rent is fairly well subsidised at the moment, but there is still a shortfall to make up, there's still gas bills, electric bills, water rates, food shopping these are all the very basic things that need to be paid a month. With the cut there's less rent paid so more for you to make up within the benefits but the benefits are being cut too. So move to a smaller place ok, do you know how few places accept DSS? As in at the same time do you know how high rental prices are at the moment. So you go on the council waiting list, but there's no houses available. So what then?
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The combined annual spend on DLA and unemployment benefits is ~ £20bn. Taken on its own, this is an unusually high figure because of the economic situation leading to more unemployed people, therefore, one can only expect it to go down in due course as the economy recovers. This high figure is perceived to be unmanageable because of the economic situation. Therefore, as the situation improves, it becomes more manageable through a) natural reduction as more people find work and b) offsetting through higher revenue through a rising GDP. The poor economic situation is not caused by a high welfare bill, the poor economic situation CAUSES a high welfare bill. So cutting the welfare bill will not make a blind bit of difference at this moment in time. Treat the cause, not the symptoms, and everyone benefits. |
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In most countries in the world she wouldn't need a fraction of that as the cost of living and prices are not as high as they are in England.
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peace be with you regards jack |
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Yes, if you're not insured, then it is tough luck really, I agree with that to an extent. However, should you be struck ill, then it's not a case of 'oh well, I'll just have to get on with it'. With something like MS, there is no more 'getting on with it', it's a chronic disease from which I don't think anyone can recover. That's the point where we, collectively, as a society, turn around and say "I don't mind my taxes helping to care for this person, for they are in greater need than I." The crux is whether you agree or disagree with that sentiment. I perceive most people as agreeing with it and that is why the welfare state is as it is. If most people disagreed with it, then no doubt a political party would have come to power with remit to scrap the welfare state. |
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For your information the family do help her, I help every month when I get paid, as do my grandad who is still working well past retirement age, we are not a family of shirkers as so many on here would like to believe. I just pray that some of you don't go through anything like she or countless other extremely ill people have to go through, you really see why the country has gone to such rack and ruin with the selfish attitudes and mindsets that have graced this page today. If that's the case than the taxes that some of you are paying now that allow you to claim a state pension when the time comes, that shouldn't be allowed either as it doesn't matter if you have worked and put taxes into the country you shouldn't get anything back. Disgusting.
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Quite frankly, your mum is getting screwed by a bunch of people who have zero idea of the hardships of poverty and disability combined. Take solace in the fact that the people on here who are most critical are not representative of the majority of society. |
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best regards jack |
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You're stereotyping a little too much. I am probably right of centre on issues such as these, but would never associate myself with some of the nastier comments made on here. Stating that, in my opinion, having 6 kids is too much of a commitment is not nasty. I'm sure at the time the future looked rosy. I don't want a country in which sick people barely survive, but if they have 6 kids and not a father in sight, there has to be a limit that a cash strapped state can do. |
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The reason the system works is the rich and the middle earners pay in more than they use. A single man earning 40K with pay about £12,000 in tax, which is then used to educate the child. Quote:
My point was, our population is increasing and unless they are rich people, everyone will be getting increasingly small pieces of the pie. |
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