Originally Posted by Deschanel:
“ IMO, it hasn't been built into his character well enough for it to work. You can't just shove in some "cute" scenes several months later to enhance the character; it has to be natural and organic, not forced.”
I don't feel like they've just suddenly started to shove 'cute' scenes in though. When Derek appeared last year we saw him charm over Dot very quickly, for example.
For me though, like I said, the scenes where Derek is appearing nice and friendly aren't proof of any redeeming characteristics. For me they are just proof that he knows that sometimes you can catch more flies with honey.
Originally Posted by Deschanel:
“I know that, but it seems unrealistic that they would all get on the way they do. None of them had seen Derek for years, and don't really know the kind of person he is, so really, Derek should not have been welcomed with open arms by Jack or eventually Carol; even Max should be more wary than what he is. I just feel it would have been better if there had been more conflict and animosity between them, instead of the insta-family that we got. ”
We never saw Max's reaction when he first met up with Derek, as that happened off screen when Max was away. There is a bit of an age gap between Jack and Derek, so he probably didn't get as over bearing treatment from him as his other siblings did. Also, again this is just my own personal opinion, Jack is the one who is the most similar to Derek, in the sense I think they both have dark parts to their personality. Carol didn't welcome him with open arms, because of what happened the last time they saw each other, however he eventually managed to manipulate her around and was seeping with fake contriteness. I doubt this was the first time that Derek made a similar speech to her, and wasn't the last. Like I said, viscious circle.
Originally Posted by Deschanel:
“I don't believe for a second that Jack would condone Derek's behaviour (no matter how dodgy a cop he once was), or tag along with him the way he has; I don't believe Carol would've dropped her anger towards him so easily the way she did, and I especially don't believe that she would've allowed Derek to get away with slapping her (she would've told Max or Jack). I think it would've been better if Derek had to fight to win there trust and respect, not simply waltz in like nothing has ever happened.”
I think this is where Derek's manipulation skills come in. Like I've said, I've known of families where there is a father or a brother who is a right b*****d some of the time, because of whatever issues they have and take it out on their family as a way to facilitate their power. It is inexcusable behaviour, but that doesn't mean it is unrealistic.