Originally Posted by luv-em-all:
“Did anyone think Luke was unpleasant to Deana, quite a few people on the MF seem to think he was. I thought he seemed a little exasperated by her, but was giving her sound advice. For all we know she may have been going on and on and on. He did stick up for her also. Am I blinded because Luke is my fav?
They all have flaws and I like to think I can accept this even in my favourite HM's.”
Back! I accidentally banned myself for 15 hours by trying to link facebook to DS and opening a whole new account. Good lord. What a doofus I am.
I do think Luke was a bit curt with Deana, but for reasons I can understand.
1. He is not actually a terribly huggy housemate, which is a relief after the (several) incidents we have seen of a housemate hugging another one then slagging them off a minute later. So he was not going to do that "aww, come and have a snuggle" thing.
2. He is obviously really hating all the dramas, and having said his (very fair) piece about how he actually thought Deana had done all right in the task, he just wanted to back away from it all; Deana seemed to him to be bringing the dramas right back into his personal space, and he was deeply dismayed.
3. He hasn't seen what we have seen, not even a quarter of it, and has no idea how badly Deana is being treated.
4. The core garden group who really like and trust each other is only Luke, Adam, Lauren and (until Friday) Benedict. Benedict was notably cool on BBOTS towards Lydia and Deana, seeing them as pleasant company but hardly towers of strength. As we saw later, Luke will always listen politely to Deana, and given time was willing to make some efforts to cheer her up and make her feel included, but he doesn't see her as a trustworthy friend, and with some reason.
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