Originally Posted by Idacyder:
“Ruth has always been the one to push for the move so goodness knows why she`s now bleating "but we agreed". Yes, David was weak minded to be led by her but she was so pushy about it. I used to quite like Ruth`s character until she started pushing for this move, particularly as her mother probably hasn`t got that much longer to live.”
David has dealt with his about turn shittily though. He agreed very much on the basis of being there for Ruth's Mum

So what has changed exactly and yet now he keeps talking to Ruth like she has to just move on because he has and just get on with things
I'm actually on Ruth's side

Something I never thought I'd say.
Originally Posted by gomezz:
“Shula has always been a moral prig and now when put to the test she fails her own principles. I think she *did* tell the police the truth but she didn't do so without being tempted to lie which is what is chewing her up.”
I intensely dislike Shula and now I have beautifully confirmed why, sanctimonious and a coward
Originally Posted by gemma-the-husky:
“David/Ruth
well you know it was coming but
1. The idea of needing to move "just" to support ruth's mum was garbage.
2. The idea of losing several million just for a bit of sentimentality is even dafter. Surely you could just sell up and retire.
I think they will divorce over this”
Yes so do I. It would be wonderfully evilly ironic if a divorce forced a sale of the farm anyway