Originally Posted by docman:
“Bunkham.
I believe Ben is straight but if he isn't doing gay porn it is a choice. Loads of straight guys dow gay porn and some gay guys do straight stuff too. It is a total fantasy to think that straight men can't do gay sex and the same in reverse.
For thousands of years social pressure has forced gay men to marry women and they have managed to father just as many kids as straight men in that time - see King James I, Oscar Wilde and thousands of others. And in reverse thousands of straight men had been perfectly functional in sex with other men if they wanted to for purposes of advancement - see Duke of Buckingham, Clark Gable and many others.”
Gay men in straight relationships can be turned on by their partner because of the closeness between them (emotional connection, sharing a bed every night etc)
They cannot, however, be turned on by women in general
If they can, they aren't gay