[irishguy]

I'm sure part of the appeal is that they're kept hidden away. If every woman walked around topless all the time they'd probably loose much of their fascination

[Kubrick]

Originally Posted by InMyArms

As a gay man, I just don't get it

Why do men seem to love boobs so much?

They seem very limited in what you can do to them, their best use is probably a pillow.

They seem like lumps of lard.

Can anyone enlighten me?

You're gay, ergo you're not going to see the appeal of breasts. Just like the majority of straight men won't see the appeal of a male arse or penis.

Lumps of Lard? Leave the misogyny out of it. You might be gay, but you still came into this world through a woman like everyone else. You don't have to find women's breasts appealing, but you don't have to insult them just because you don't find them appealing either.

[Pet1986]

Originally Posted by Billy_Value

COCKTAIL COCKTAIL!!!! how dare you

Sorry, i was being generous

[GothSarah]

I don't have much in the way of boobs, I'm kinda tiny up there lol My partner loves them though

[peon]

Originally Posted by Pet1986

Im not sure what boobs youve actually seen or touched but i can assure you mine and most womens do not resemble in any way shape or form a "lump of lard"

a recent photo of them sent to an email address of my choosing will allow me to verify this for the benefit of the other forum members of course.

[barrcode88]

In the same way as you love a good pair of bollocks (not meant in a homophobic way) - love them to be real not fake as they don't move.

[Pet1986]

Originally Posted by peon

a recent photo of them sent to an email address of my choosing will allow me to verify this for the benefit of the other forum members of course.

lol

[BomoLad]

Originally Posted by barrcode88

In the same way as you love a good pair of bollocks (not meant in a homophobic way).

How could that have been meant in a homophobic way? I'm not meaning to be racist here.

[CarlLewis]

Originally Posted by InMyArms

As a gay man, I just don't get it

Why do men seem to love boobs so much?

They seem very limited in what you can do to them, their best use is probably a pillow.

They seem like lumps of lard.

Can anyone enlighten me?

You can suck the nipples
Stick your face in between 'em
Stick other things between 'em
Grab 'em from the front
Grab 'em from behind
Watch 'em bounce up and down
Get lady to rub 'em over your body
etc etc

[barrcode88]

Originally Posted by BomoLad

How could that have been meant in a homophobic way? I'm not meaning to be racist here.

Well its like black people and gangsta rap, fo'life y'know. #notbeingracistremember

[Eraserhead]

Originally Posted by Orangemaid

i have a nice pair

I don't believe you. Post pictures to prove you're not lying

[Neda_Turk]

That's interesting. As a gay man I don't see any male attributes in isolation to the person, yet straight men seem to see Boobs as a THING on there own that just happen to be attached to a female somewhere behind them.

So to say I like cock and balls in the same way as straight men like Boobs, then I don't think I do. For me male attachments come in many shapes and sizes and are really unimportant. What is important is the person and what they do with them. It's that which is either a turn on or a turn off. Just having and aesthetically pleasing one isn't enough and great things can be done with a less than perfect one.

On that score, I think that gay men think differently to straight men.

[Bulletguy1]

Originally Posted by peon

i love the boobs. tbh i don't get what gay men find so appealing about messing with another bloke's knob. horses for courses really.

Exactly!!

[Bulletguy1]

Originally Posted by Orangemaid

i have a nice pair

Proof please.

[CarlLewis]

Originally Posted by Neda_Turk

That's interesting. As a gay man I don't see any male attributes in isolation to the person, yet straight men seem to see Boobs as a THING on there own that just happen to be attached to a female somewhere behind them.

That's pretty much it.

[Bulletguy1]

Originally Posted by Neda_Turk

That's interesting. As a gay man I don't see any male attributes in isolation to the person, yet straight men seem to see Boobs as a THING on there own that just happen to be attached to a female somewhere behind them.

So to say I like cock and balls in the same way as straight men like Boobs, then I don't think I do. For me male attachments come in many shapes and sizes and are really unimportant. What is important is the person and what they do with them. It's that which is either a turn on or a turn off. Just having and aesthetically pleasing one isn't enough and great things can be done with a less than perfect one.

On that score, I think that gay men think differently to straight men.

Obviously.

We are men who look at women.................you are a man who looks at men.

[peon]

Originally Posted by Neda_Turk

That's interesting. As a gay man I don't see any male attributes in isolation to the person, yet straight men seem to see Boobs as a THING on there own that just happen to be attached to a female somewhere behind them.

So to say I like cock and balls in the same way as straight men like Boobs, then I don't think I do. For me male attachments come in many shapes and sizes and are really unimportant. What is important is the person and what they do with them. It's that which is either a turn on or a turn off. Just having and aesthetically pleasing one isn't enough and great things can be done with a less than perfect one.

On that score, I think that gay men think differently to straight men.

going off this post, they think more like women.

[ninjahandfriend]

Half the men on here have tits anyway.

[InMyArms]

Originally Posted by Kubrick

Lumps of Lard? Leave the misogyny out of it. You might be gay, but you still came into this world through a woman like everyone else. You don't have to find women's breasts appealing, but you don't have to insult them just because you don't find them appealing either.

Not misogyny at all, It's just because I don't see their appeal and I don't have breasts.. so because of those things I think it's perfectly natural to see them in that way due to lack of familiarity. I just imagine them sitting there all day building sweat underneath them and it repulses me, just like under the feet or armpits of a person of either gender repulses me. A normal sized man's nipple area doesn't because of their size they don't sit there getting sweaty all day.. not that I really get the appeal of a man's nipple and surrounding area either.

I'm sure many lesbians think similar things about the male body.

[CELT1987]

Originally Posted by InMyArms

Not misogyny at all, It's just because I don't see their appeal and I don't have breasts.. so because of those things I think it's perfectly natural to see them in that way due to lack of familiarity. I just imagine them sitting there all day building sweat underneath them and it repulses me, just like under the feet or armpits of a person of either gender repulses me. A normal sized man's nipple area doesn't because of their size they don't sit there getting sweaty all day.. not that I really get the appeal of a man's nipple and surrounding area either.

I'm sure many lesbians think similar things about the male body.

Whats your problem with breasts then? If you don't like like them, then don't look at them. No one is forcing you to.

[InMyArms]

Originally Posted by CELT1987

Whats your problem with breasts then? If you don't like like them, then don't look at them. No one is forcing you to.

No issue, just thought it might be interesting to hear from some men what it is about them that appeals

[Bulletguy1]

Originally Posted by ninjahandfriend

Half the men on here have tits anyway.

A lot of 'men' do where you live.

[Orangemaid]

Originally Posted by InMyArms

Not misogyny at all, It's just because I don't see their appeal and I don't have breasts.. so because of those things I think it's perfectly natural to see them in that way due to lack of familiarity. I just imagine them sitting there all day building sweat underneath them and it repulses me, just like under the feet or armpits of a person of either gender repulses me. A normal sized man's nipple area doesn't because of their size they don't sit there getting sweaty all day.. not that I really get the appeal of a man's nipple and surrounding area either.

I'm sure many lesbians think similar things about the male body.

And men's bits don't..that repulses me too

[CELT1987]

Originally Posted by Orangemaid

And men's bits don't..that repulses me too

There will be a thread on that now probably...

[ninjahandfriend]

Originally Posted by Bulletguy1

A lot of 'men' do where you live.

Haha, theirs are probably less pendulous though.

It's interesting though - I think I saw far more trannies in Europe than here. I'm not sure where that stereotype comes from.