Originally Posted by PICKLES60:
“It is a difficult one many criticise Josie because she didn't go into detail when her and John James were obviously struggling. Some have even said she pulled the wool over the fans eyes. For the record I think she did what many of us do when things are a bit rocky she dealt with it behind closed doors, as much as TsaJ allowed. So now she is putting it out there ahead of time so there are no big shocks, if they don't manage to work it out. I do think there are other more interesting things happening at the moment in Josies life and that is what I would like to hear about. But like it or lump it her column is relationship driven in the main and this is all we are going to get.
I really don't think this relationship will last the course and for that I am truly sorry for them both. The reason for my grim outlook is based on the fact that these sort of problems really need to be dealt with behind closed doors not in the public glare for all and sundry ie : me to pass judgement.”
I agree Carole - especially about things should be done behind closed doors not put in a magazine
Originally Posted by sooze:
“Did Josie not always say that she would rather finish it first in a relationship. I do think this is what happened with JJ as well - get in first and see if they will fight for me. However we do not really know what was going on behind closed doors - apart from what we saw with JJ in TiSAJ and it seemed then as if she was pushing the meltdown and the other (JJ or L) are just too shattered by the experience to fight back.
I am not getting at J but she has said that this is what she did before JJ and the pattern is there. It is as if she cannot believe that a relationship can work once the initial excitement has passed.”
There certainly does seem to be a pattern forming