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Old 19-06-2012, 22:46
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I'm an older lady who has quite recently discovered an addiction to much younger men - I would like tips on how to attract more via my appearance - I'm quite curvy and slim and a girlish looking blonde and attract a certain amount of attention anyway but would like to improve my batting average....help please.
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Old 20-06-2012, 02:09
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Hang around rugby players, they love cougars and milfs.
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Old 20-06-2012, 02:11
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More Flesh please
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Old 20-06-2012, 12:33
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Where were you 25 years ago?
I suggest you can go in students bars and whatever your appearance is, you'll be fine.
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Old 20-06-2012, 14:51
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im atracted to older females if they are smokers and have the bob hairstyle
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Old 20-06-2012, 14:56
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I'm an older lady who has quite recently discovered an addiction to much younger men - I would like tips on how to attract more via my appearance - I'm quite curvy and slim and a girlish looking blonde and attract a certain amount of attention anyway but would like to improve my batting average....help please.

Low cut top.
Short skirt, flashing a stocking top.
The best lingerie you've got.

You'll be beating them off with a shitty stick.
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Old 20-06-2012, 15:16
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go down the gym, i'm always checking out how fit the older (and younger!) girls are down there
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Old 22-06-2012, 14:49
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Am taking due note of the suggestions. Please keep them coming. I have my eye on a particular young man now and need all the help I can get

Is there anything in particular I should not be doing or looking in trying to trap said young man?
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Old 22-06-2012, 15:32
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Am taking due note of the suggestions. Please keep them coming. I have my eye on a particular young man now and need all the help I can get

Is there anything in particular I should not be doing or looking in trying to trap said young man?
Do you wear short skirts? Do you own some short skirts?

Where's this man you want to trap? In the office/workplace?
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Old 22-06-2012, 18:05
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..I know this might sound a bit strange to you but lots of guys get turned on by older woman who display Mum like qualities, you may think that the last thing you want to do around younger men is come across as mumsy but you'll be surprised by how many younger guys will be turned on by it.
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Old 23-06-2012, 11:31
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Low cut top.
Short skirt, flashing a stocking top.
The best lingerie you've got.

You'll be beating them off with a shitty stick.
She said she wanted to attract younger men, not be mistaken for a hooker.
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Old 23-06-2012, 11:35
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Younger men like older women because like grown up women not girls. It makes them feel manly & grown up...

I would focus on looking glam, elegant, classy & confident with a flash of sexiness.
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Old 23-06-2012, 13:39
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She said she wanted to attract younger men, not be mistaken for a hooker.
She'll pull him though, which is what she wants.
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Old 23-06-2012, 13:44
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I'm a big fan of younger men!

But if you're after a specific younger man, I think you need to think about attracting HIM, not about attracting 'younger men' as a group. He may be the type to not care what you look like, he may like a woman who looks younger than she is, he may be attracted to the motherly side of you, who knows? You need to find out more about him and work out what approach to take. Good luck though!
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Old 23-06-2012, 14:44
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I'm imagining the furore if this were an old git like me asking the same question about younger girls. I think I might try it
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Old 23-06-2012, 14:51
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I'm imagining the furore if this were an old git like me asking the same question about younger girls. I think I might try it
I'll give you a clue, begins with m and ends in oney.
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Old 23-06-2012, 14:55
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Younger men like older women because like grown up women not girls.
Helloo I think I'll try that sentence again:

Younger men like older women precisely because they are women not girls.

She'll pull him though, which is what she wants.
Not if he has taste...
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Old 23-06-2012, 14:57
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I'll give you a clue, begins with m and ends in oney.
A begins with t/c & ends with oupé might help...
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Old 23-06-2012, 16:29
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I'm an older lady who has quite recently discovered an addiction to much younger men - I would like tips on how to attract more via my appearance - I'm quite curvy and slim and a girlish looking blonde and attract a certain amount of attention anyway but would like to improve my batting average....help please.
dye your pubes. nothing worse than a bush that looks like a used Brillo.
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Old 23-06-2012, 16:40
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[quote=Kiko H Fan;59010547]Do you wear short skirts? Do you own some short skirts?

Where's this man you want to trap? In the office/workplace?[/QUOTE]

He's actually, shall we say, a friend of a friend - but I know quite a lot about him and we've had some interesting chats in bars etc.

I know a bit about his own mother too, and although I don't look like her I would say our characters are very similar.

Thanks for all your suggestions
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Old 23-06-2012, 17:11
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A begins with t/c & ends with oupé might help...
I think the implications passed him by

Disclaimer: I prefer ladies close to my own age
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Old 25-06-2012, 09:15
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He's actually, shall we say, a friend of a friend - but I know quite a lot about him and we've had some interesting chats in bars etc.

I know a bit about his own mother too, and although I don't look like her I would say our characters are very similar.

Thanks for all your suggestions
You sound like a stalker!!

Just jump his bones in the bar, or in the car park if you want to be discreet. Just go for it and see what happens.
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Old 25-06-2012, 16:59
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Younger men like older women because like grown up women not girls. It makes them feel manly & grown up...

I would focus on looking glam, elegant, classy & confident with a flash of sexiness.
^^This^^

I always seem to agree with Christa.
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Old 26-06-2012, 10:18
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try and be in touch with him and his interest - wear trendy, up to date clothes, talk about current topics, flatter him and show interest in him.

out of curiosity, how old are you both if you don't mind me
asking?
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Old 10-07-2012, 11:41
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Where were you 25 years ago?
I suggest you can go in students bars and whatever your appearance is, you'll be fine.
lol! so true.

anyway...

goldberry1 - Just develop a social circle that is slightly younger and outgoing. Not immature though as you'll stick out like a sore thumb (not to mention get very bored very quickly).

Just be fesity, be full spirited, love a good adventure and dont complain about stuff, especially "the old days" as it changes the focus of your conversations to a perspective you might not find useful,

Whatever you do, do not throw yourself at them. (I'm sure you know this already). The biggest turn off is *signs* of desperation.

good luck!
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