[MissBeastie]

I found it disturbing that Connor put on a weird comedy-voice when he released his bile about Deana. Perhaps he thinks this somehow disguises or dilutes the aggressive and vile nature of the content...

[SillyBillyGoat]

Agreed, OP. Every time I threaten to sexually violate and knock out somebody, I mean it with humour.

[changa]

Another pathetic attempt to redeem revolting thug and his abhorrent, aggressive threatening behaviour.

Shame on you OP.

[premixxed]

Originally Posted by Anthony_Burns

The first obscene rapper-esque part was certainly intended as humorous, though that's not what I'd have called it ... The second "punch her in the face" part was another matter.

You should replace him, the house needs its IQ raising.

[Gunner95]

I reckon if this had been said to Caroline or even to one of the men, there would be nowhere near this outrage.

[lastmanstanding]

Conner himself said in the diary room when he was given the warning it was just pure anger.

[CBFreak]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

I reckon if this had been said to Caroline or even to one of the men, there would be nowhere near this outrage.

Gunner stop while your behind.

[brb]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Just the way it came across to me with the rapping into the hairbrush, seemed as though he was just trying to entertain the house.

Trying to entertain the house by violently exclaiming he would sexually violate Deana with a hair brush... Yeah...

[nerf666]

#mint #banter to talk about sexually assaulting a female then imitate physical violence

What a #LAD eh?

Real man etc

[Anthony_Burns]

Originally Posted by premixxed

You should replace him, the house needs its IQ raising.

I'm no Benedict, alas, but I'd give it my all.

[od hominem]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Just the way it came across to me with the rapping into the hairbrush, seemed as though he was just trying to entertain the house.

In that case, he needs to seriously consider keeping a tight grip on his day job, because, as an entertainer, he pretty much sucks the ****ing big one. Trying to entertain the house??? Kin ell, I've heard it all now.

[cherrytops(82)]

are people being extra then?

at end of the day Deena has been called to the DR and asked if she's ok. she hasnt said she feels victimised and has said she feels ok.

Conor been called into the DR and has been told off. if he does it again i'll be and then i'll be like "GET CONOR OUT!!!"

Arron enters the diary room and what BB said to him went through one ear and out the other at least Conor reflected on what he was told.

now surely if she feels she was been bullied she would have spoken to BB about it and demanded that something should be done.

but NO she hasn't done that. instead she 'warns' Arron not to mess with her and causes 'more tension' by telling Luke S that Arron knew about the curry powder.
Caroline the one who personally attacked her IMO. she spoke about the hair on the table knowing the 'bullies' are on the table (she was hoping for a reaction from them and she got it - Conor) but it backfired on her when Deena dissed her back (good old Deena). and then later she was going to hide the epilator.

BECKY BECKY BECKY she's just the same picking on Deena too. (i thought she was a 'friend') didnt even tell Caroline to stop but encouraged her by saying "hide it here".

Scott's a bully - (calling Deena a dog - i mean what was that about)

Ashleigh - only one who stuck up for Deena

the only ones not bullying was Lydia, Luke A, Adam, Lauren and Sara (hmm) not including Shievonne because of her comment when she 'thought' Lydia was giving her daggers

people are only making a big fuss because conor has got away with it. they don't even care that Deena is ok and smiled at the end of the program.

.GET ALL OF THEM OUT THEY ARE ALL AS BAD AS EACH OTHER

[Amaretto2]

Yes, poor Conor. He was just trying to "entertain" the house with his threats of sexual violence and followed it up with cracker about knocking her out to keep morale at a sky high.

Bit like how poor Dennis spat in Mo's face to "diffuse" the situation and Alexandra was offering to get her gang member friends to sort out Rex' problem with persistant daffodils in his patio.

Why are the good people always misunderstood? Why????

[Gunner95]

Look, did anybody actually think he was going to "Take that hairbrush and stick it right up her minge?"

[stargazer61]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Look, did anybody actually think he was going to "Take that hairbrush and stick it right up her minge?"

You really don't get it, do you?

[cherrytops(82)]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Look, did anybody actually think he was going to "Take that hairbrush and stick it right up her minge?"

no i didnt, thats why im saying everyone's being extra lol

[Gunner95]

Originally Posted by stargazer61

You really don't get it, do you?

What do you mean?

[NaughtyNan]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Look, did anybody actually think he was going to "Take that hairbrush and stick it right up her minge?"

Why did he say it then? language is after all the way to express what one thinks isn't it?

[Gunner95]

Originally Posted by NaughtyNan

Why did he say it then? language is after the way to express what one thinks isn't it?

Well if he'd actually done it then we'd have a case maybe.

[brb]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Look, did anybody actually think he was going to "Take that hairbrush and stick it right up her minge?"

Using your mentality, people would be able to go around threatning anyone as long as they had no intention to actually do it...

[jdayeh13]

I got the same impression when watching it but when he apologised and his excuse was that he was angry rather than joking, that made me realise he was serious in what he said.

[cherrytops(82)]

Originally Posted by NaughtyNan

Why did he say it then? language is after the way to express what one thinks isn't it?

when teenager shout "i wish you were dead" do you think they actually mean it or was saying it because they are angry>?

do you think they really mean it?

[Gunner95]

Ok I'm done with this matter. Seems all I can do is state my opinion and offend people. Apologies for the offence I've caused.

[changa]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

Well if he'd actually done it then we'd have a case maybe.

There are laws against making threats and threatening behaviour - though it doesn't surprise me at all that you don't appear to know this

[Ms Ann Thrope]

Originally Posted by Gunner95

What do you mean?

There's nothing funny about it, simple as. It doesn't matter HOW he said it, he said it and his emotion was one of aggression.

This is just one step on from the 'smash your back doors in' line of talk. It's the coarsening of the language that people use to each other that leads to the kind of disgusting invective Conor used towards Deana, and makes him think that it's OK when it totally is not. It shows a total disrespect and disregard to her feelings in the matter.