Originally Posted by elena:
“I find that a very interesting statement, and one I buy into. In the US, if you have a winning mentality, you are applauded. In the UK, if you are slightly less confident of your chances/ are the underdog, you come in for a lot of praise. I personally think the former is fairer, as we need to congratulate those who do well and are confident enough to believe they can succeed - but without the latter, life would be a little duller.
As an aside, our media have a "build 'em up, knock 'em down" mentality that drives me insane.”
I lived in the USA for a year, went to school there, and there is a very definite hierachy of those who succeed and those who don't ("the geeks") and winning is EVERYTHING. It's highly highly competitive, even down to spelling competitions. It's great in one way because it gives people goals, somethign to work towards and the rewards of winning are so much more enjoyable when you've had to work to get there. There's a very positive 'you can do anything' attitude that's truly inspiring. On the other hand it's a very lonley life for the 'losers' out there.
In the UK, I think we're perhaps too far the other way. We now have a competition where someone who really cannot dance well is in a final with two phenomenal dancers just becuase the GBP think he's sweet/the underdog/bless 'im, he tries. It devalues winning, it devalues the work that goes in to getting there. Almost makes it pointless having a competition. There will always be those who deserve to win and we shouldn't be afraid to believe in ourselves and push ourselves. On the other hand, it is to our credit that we genuinally admire those who try and appreciate humility and a sense of humour.
If we could find somewhere in the middle of the two I think that would be the ideal.
As I've said all along, if Denise could change her attitude (not that it's a bad attitude, but the attitude of 'must win') she might find a more supportive GBP. I thought she did a much better job of that this week, and to prove it, she's in the final.