There are two fundamentally different ways of watching a BB series, mired in mutual incomprehension, particularly in that group A cannot understand group B.
Group A take what you might call the sports fans' attitude to BB. It is a game, a competition, its purpose is to entertain the audience. An ideal highlights show has a twist, an explosion, a melt-down, a huge drama ending in tears, tantrums and expletives. BB5 fight night is a kind of shangri-la, never quite equalled. It is absolutely maddening to people in this group that 'big characters' are so often voted out early. They often post on here about the stupidity of people who can't SEE that the game is going to be boring with 'the getalong gang drinking tea'. Pete, Rachel and Luke are often quoted as their worst winners: all three of them disliked confrontation; Pete would literally leave the room, Rachel's reaction to being quite unpleasantly picked on was to say nothing more than "well, you're entitled to your opinion" and refuse to engage with it, Luke spent hours after any criticism gnawing away at what he had done wrong instead of (apart from once) saying a big **** it. They did not create drama. They were not at the centre of conflicts, or at least not deliberately.
Group B take what you might call the virtual friends attitude to BB. They feel a strong emotional attachment to one or more housemates and identify with them as they go through life in the house. The big dramas are not the core point of BB. They (and I am one of them) are more interested in seeing a favourite housemate dealing with the minor dramas of BB life than in seeing 'big characters' creating conflicts. They exchange facts about a housemate's family. They follow them AND their family members on twitter or facebook. I am an extreme group B. I adored, for example, watching Dean in BB2 spending hours and hours trying to stack sugar lumps: it was quite emotional watching this very likeable man wrestling with a genuinely tough challenge, never giving up, and triumphing in the end. I loved it all over again when he returned in BB10 and did the same challenge with Lisa - by then she was totally marginalised, a bit low in spirits, defeated, just serving her time; for a few golden minutes the presence of a completely kind, unjudgmental, relatable, emotionally stable West Midlands peer relaxed her and made her sweet-natured, friendly and happy. If you offered me the chance to watch that scene again or BB5 fight night, I would probably choose Dean thawing Lisa out. (I have deliberately chosen an old example here in the hope that people will not feel too emotional about anyone involved).
Group A never seem to understand why such dull housemates keep winning. Pete, Rachel and Luke have all been diminished by the sneer 'sympathy vote'; replace 'sympathy' with 'empathy' and you have a point. They are three housemates who made people really care about them, even love them. They were 'radar dodgers' - and so would most of us have been. How many of us really want to go round stirring up conflict? Out of 13 series, there have only been two where my favourite has won, but I have no trouble understanding ANY of the winners. They won by making people care about them, feel happy when they were happy and sad when they were sad. All of them. 'Legendary' housemates, from Jade onwards didn't make enough people care about them to win.
I actually think (this is my last paragraph before I break the internet) that BB is not a brilliant series for a strong group A person. BB keeps trying to stir up drama - splitting prize money, twisting nominations, inventing very confrontational tasks - but a lot of that seems to be trying to compensate for the fact that the public just WON'T keep in the loud, fiery people they had put in the house to stir things up.
Group A take what you might call the sports fans' attitude to BB. It is a game, a competition, its purpose is to entertain the audience. An ideal highlights show has a twist, an explosion, a melt-down, a huge drama ending in tears, tantrums and expletives. BB5 fight night is a kind of shangri-la, never quite equalled. It is absolutely maddening to people in this group that 'big characters' are so often voted out early. They often post on here about the stupidity of people who can't SEE that the game is going to be boring with 'the getalong gang drinking tea'. Pete, Rachel and Luke are often quoted as their worst winners: all three of them disliked confrontation; Pete would literally leave the room, Rachel's reaction to being quite unpleasantly picked on was to say nothing more than "well, you're entitled to your opinion" and refuse to engage with it, Luke spent hours after any criticism gnawing away at what he had done wrong instead of (apart from once) saying a big **** it. They did not create drama. They were not at the centre of conflicts, or at least not deliberately.
Group B take what you might call the virtual friends attitude to BB. They feel a strong emotional attachment to one or more housemates and identify with them as they go through life in the house. The big dramas are not the core point of BB. They (and I am one of them) are more interested in seeing a favourite housemate dealing with the minor dramas of BB life than in seeing 'big characters' creating conflicts. They exchange facts about a housemate's family. They follow them AND their family members on twitter or facebook. I am an extreme group B. I adored, for example, watching Dean in BB2 spending hours and hours trying to stack sugar lumps: it was quite emotional watching this very likeable man wrestling with a genuinely tough challenge, never giving up, and triumphing in the end. I loved it all over again when he returned in BB10 and did the same challenge with Lisa - by then she was totally marginalised, a bit low in spirits, defeated, just serving her time; for a few golden minutes the presence of a completely kind, unjudgmental, relatable, emotionally stable West Midlands peer relaxed her and made her sweet-natured, friendly and happy. If you offered me the chance to watch that scene again or BB5 fight night, I would probably choose Dean thawing Lisa out. (I have deliberately chosen an old example here in the hope that people will not feel too emotional about anyone involved).
Group A never seem to understand why such dull housemates keep winning. Pete, Rachel and Luke have all been diminished by the sneer 'sympathy vote'; replace 'sympathy' with 'empathy' and you have a point. They are three housemates who made people really care about them, even love them. They were 'radar dodgers' - and so would most of us have been. How many of us really want to go round stirring up conflict? Out of 13 series, there have only been two where my favourite has won, but I have no trouble understanding ANY of the winners. They won by making people care about them, feel happy when they were happy and sad when they were sad. All of them. 'Legendary' housemates, from Jade onwards didn't make enough people care about them to win.
I actually think (this is my last paragraph before I break the internet) that BB is not a brilliant series for a strong group A person. BB keeps trying to stir up drama - splitting prize money, twisting nominations, inventing very confrontational tasks - but a lot of that seems to be trying to compensate for the fact that the public just WON'T keep in the loud, fiery people they had put in the house to stir things up.






,not bitchy.I dont fit in A or B and it is not really about the show for me.It is whether I identify with that person.I can care alot and develop motherly feeling but can detach as well and move when another one comes along.