Originally Posted by MinkytheDog:
“I just meant that it seemed more like a gaff in the humour department than anything else to me. If it hadn't have been for the posts following his, I would have just ignored it as a naff joke. It was undeniably well over the good taste line for this particular forum - but that can happen occasionally and it wasn't so bad as to make it seriously offensive.
If I thought that someone was making a habit of tending towards lewdness, I'd contact the mods so they could ask them to tone it down in future - unless it was someone I regard as a mate and felt it okay to pm them with constructive criticism.”
“I just meant that it seemed more like a gaff in the humour department than anything else to me. If it hadn't have been for the posts following his, I would have just ignored it as a naff joke. It was undeniably well over the good taste line for this particular forum - but that can happen occasionally and it wasn't so bad as to make it seriously offensive.
If I thought that someone was making a habit of tending towards lewdness, I'd contact the mods so they could ask them to tone it down in future - unless it was someone I regard as a mate and felt it okay to pm them with constructive criticism.”
If people want to post their witty comments on a public forum in, you know, public, then a follow on comment is to be expected. Especially when the witty comments are about Forum Members.
I wasn't commenting directly on the lack of taste. I was pointing out the immaturity of it compared with the sharp criticism of immaturity made by that same person just a few minutes earlier. Sometimes a joke backfires. Take it on the chin.
Surely people who post criticisms of forum members (the Points of View thread) can tolerate a little bit of ribbing in return? Are they really such delicate little flowers?
I don't see why we should have a policy of ignoring this sort of thing and resorting only to alerts to the moderator. It's a discussion forum. We can discuss each others thoughts on things without needing to go running quietly to teacher. I tend to reserve Alert for cases where I think genuine nasty troublemaking is going on. Or direct personal abuse. Sometimes raising a quizzical eyebrow should be enough? Do people go running to the nearest police station as soon as they notice someone dropping litter?
However, seeing as you raise the topic of taste - I would hardly be surprised if people were getting fed up with the repeated grubby demands across numerous threads to see the companions naked. I was accused of "keeping a scrapbook" because of some imagined "grudge" for noticing this. I can't possibly imagine why I'd be bearing a grudge. I can't recall a single time where I've felt that person has got the better of me in any way, or upset me personally. (not, I should add, that I bear grudges even in those cases.) I wonder if I'm the only person to have noticed the pattern? The other people who notice it - do they all keep scrapbooks? Bear grudges? Or are they just rolling their eyes at a tiresome immature thing? It wouldn't be noticed if it wasn't plastered across so many threads, often in topics nothing to do with companion nudity.




