Originally Posted by kaycee:
“Watching 2 guys do ballroom can be fascinating - invariably they start a routine with one guy leading, and halfway round the floor you will notice the other guy leading but it can be difficult to spot the change. Very clever.”
Switching leads, for an experienced dancer, is easy. Any competent dancer should be able to do both lead and follow, albeit with different skill / experience levels.
It's far more difficult to continuously share a lead. I can do it in AT with a few other guys who are at the same or better level as myself, and it creates a fascinating visual dynamic - weirdly, it looks incredibly aggressive for some reason.
Originally Posted by kaycee:
“Having said that, it isn't necessarily homophobic for someone to say they don't like to see 2 guys or 2 women dance together.”
Of course it's not.
It's obviously only homophobic if someone said "Oh, I don't think gay people should do partner dancing".
No-one's said that. No-one's ever likely to say that.