Mr Sad flew to Alicante with his mum this morning - flightradar show his flight has landed but the airport thinks they're still on the tarmac in Luton - welcome to Spain
Here I'm mostly enjoying the fact that I have the same weather this week as he does with none of the associated stress
Been internetless for the best part of a week - can only do so much on my mobile. In some ways it's been quite nice.
*RANT ALERT*
The youngest managed to scare us witless on Sunday - had a fall while warming up for cheerleading comp, went ahead and competed anyway, then collapsed and had to be dealt with by paramedics. Ended up in A&E in a neck brace for four hours before the x-ray determined that nothing was broken.
Lots of pain still but zero sympathy from the so called team mates who should have broken her fall but who have instead led a campaign to get her to remove all references to the injury from social media as 'it shows the team in a bad light'.
To say that I am disappointed with the coach for being caught up in this and endorsing the viewpoint is ... an understatement. Nothing was posted to over-egg what happened as I'm sure those of you who saw them will testify (if anything we played it down as we were trying to reduce her anxiety during that four hour wait and also didn't want the younger members of the team to be aware of our concerns). Apparently it was our flippancy about it that caused anger... pure soap opera stuff this. So immature in the way it's been handled too. And not so much as text from the coach to enquire as to how she was the following day, which really rankles. Just a request to take the pictures down!
She has another competition in a fortnight but the whole thing has left a very sour taste. She's dedicated and loyal to the team - we travel 120 miles round trip, twice a week, to get her to the practice sessions - and wait while she practices - so including the time spent travelling this takes up 15 hours a week. No small commitment.
She's now been summoned to a meeting prior to training this week to 'sort out the differences' between her and the ringleader of this campaign. She's not in a good place emotionally and cheerleading really is her life at the moment so she's terrified she will lose her place on the squad. I'll be with her on the journey but probably not in the meeting itself (she's 21...) yet really want to stick my oar in and give them what for.
It's hard being a parent innit.
On that note best get to work - someone has to pay for the bloody fuel for all this