Originally Posted by Sulala:
“Well.....since you asked, I’ll give you at least some of the reasons.
1. Her relationships with men. She appears to have fake relationships. Since she divorced Ashley she dated two back up dancers, sold those relationships like mad to the press, and then dumped them when the release of her albums were over. Now she marries a man who she clearly doesn’t know at all. These relationships are highly suspicious. They appear fake. Especially her recent marriage, this is the fakest of them all. And when she married Ashley he had A TON of gay rumors.
2.Chim. The fandom of Girls Aloud have noticed for years that Cheryl’s friendship with Kimberley is not like a normal friendship. I don’t know if chim is real or not, but I have noticed that their relationship is much closer than most friends, and that there seems to be a charged chemistry between them. The fandom hasn’t given them a couple’s name and become obsessed with them for no reason.
3.If you watch X Factor, she acts really gay on it. I’m surprised people haven’t questioned her sexuality purely based on this. She is constantly going on and on about how beautiful or sexy the female contestants are and always with a real passion that is beyond what you’d see from a straight women admiring another woman's looks. I suppose people just overlook these comments because she’s feminine. If she were tomboyish, people would have noticed right away. Never seen her give any care for the men. Reggie and Bollie is the first time I've ever seen her even pay attention to male contestants, and her friendship with them is very sibling-y.
4.She always seems sad. Despite, apparently, being one of the most beautiful, desired woman in the country, she can’t seem to find love. Poor Cheryl just has such bad luck with men! Can’t seem to find happiness since Ashley, always gives off a vibe of loneliness and sadness. Especially now when she's supposed to still be in the honeymoon stage of a new relationship, she has anorexia and perhaps a drug problem, clearly an unhappy person.
5. There are a ton of blind items saying she's gay. It's not just people on this site that think she is.”
The first and fourth reasons could just be because she appears to have a difficult personality which means that she finds relationships are hard to maintain. Nothing to do with being a lesbian, everything to do with being brittle and career-driven, two things that men don't generally find attractive (because men in the industry and egotistical and obsessed with being an "alpha" male. Brittle and career-driven women, no matter how beautiful, terrify them.)
Reason number two - "Chim" won't be the first gay celebrity pairing that people have obsessed about and given a name without knowing if it's true or not, and they won't be the last. It's what fans do. Talk to tinhatters in the Supernatural fandom genuinely believe that 'J2' is a real thing and could give you a dossier of conspiracy theories if you ask them about it; 'Larry' shippers are even crazier - despite the fact that it's well known within the industry that Harry and Louis actually can't stand each other.
Reason number three - She probably does this because she thinks it makes her 'sexier' to flirt with the female contestants. If she was genuinely a closeted lesbian she would steer well clear of making comments that people read too much into. Same as her flirtations with Kim.
Reason number five - blind items can be a good indicator but they can also be a load of rubbish made up by bored website owners looking for hits.
But with all of that said, I don't know if she is gay or not. I just think that it's important to remember there are always other sides to an argument.