I usually come on the DS Showbiz forum to look at 100% Bollocks We Are Reading About..., but occasionally I look at other threads to see what they are about, and ended up here again. And not for the first time it struck me as being curiously old-fashioned.
I know some gays who aren't in the public eye are still closeted and feel they can't come out for one reason or another, but the days are long gone when the News of the Screws would make its moolah by frontpaging woofter vicars etc. I mean long gone.
Yes, we still have homophobia in several caves, football being the most prominent, and there just have to be one or two gays in the several hundred professinals plying their trade every Saturday, but we have come a long way since nasty stories in the Screws.
I work in the newspaper industry, and the media is probably and traditonally a little more 'progressive' than areas such as, say accounting, but we work side-by-side with several gays of both sexes, it is well-known, no one gives a f*** and pretty much the last thing on our minds when we talk (and laugh) together.
I can understand gays in acting and showbiz playing it down (or coming out with I like men and women, I like women and men) because part of their profession (and sadly marketability) involves to some extent gaining a following among the young and not so young of the oppsite sex.
For example, if you see L Dicaprio in a love scene (Gatsby), it's not going to be the same if you think he is actually thinking of some guy when he does the biz. Rupert Everett, all power to the man, took the bull by the horns and came out. Result? He is invariably cast at the gay best friend, which, as a working actor must piss him off more than a tad.
But that is showbiz. Here's a question: how many reading this have gay colleagues of either sex who are out and for who their gayness is pretty much the least important thing about them. Second question: how long can this thread go on for before looking more than just a but old-fashioned and silly?