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Why did Jahmene change the lyrics from 'him' to 'her'?
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oxygenjj
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by Oldnjaded:
“Thanks for that. I never thought for a second that he was gay anyway, but let's hope that your statement, based on personal knowledge, will put an end to the pointless and interminable gossip on DS about whether he is or not, as if it matters.”


Are you pleased he had his best week
neorich
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by plankenheimer:
“I can say he's clearly not as i know him very well ”

So you said.



And, I would refer to my earlier response about people thinking they "know," people with regard to their sexuality and finding out years later that they didn't "know," the person at all..even close family and even the people they got married to etc..

It's impossible to know exactly what goes on inside another persons head, so far as that goes.
What they say and what they think can be two totally different things and often for very understandable reasons.



That's definitely been my experience.

I couldn't care less if he's gay, or str8..

I happen to think he's a very talented young person..

Rich.
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plankenheimer
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by neorich:
“So you said.



And, I would refer to my earlier response about people thinking they "know," people with regard to their sexuality and finding out years later that they didn't "know," the person at all..even close family and even the people they got married to etc..

It's impossible to know exactly what goes on inside another persons head, so far as that goes.
What they say and what they think can be two totally different things and often for very understandable reasons.



That's definitely been my experience.

I couldn't care less if he's gay, or str8..

I happen to think he's a very talented young person..

Rich.
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I understand what you are saying but people are presuming things because he hasn't had a girlfriend etc.
I've not seen a thread about james arthur being gay for example..By your theory it could be a possibilty
JayPee86
28-10-2012
sounded stupid. Why change the lyrics of a classic. It's not a song about a boyfriend or girlfriend anyway !! This show is getting so dumb
oxygenjj
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by plankenheimer:
“I understand what you are saying but people are presuming things because he hasn't had a girlfriend etc.
I've not seen a thread about james arthur being gay for example..By your theory it could be a possibilty”



Is he a good christian boy
plankenheimer
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by oxygenjj:
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Is he a good christian boy ”

Absolutely
researchshirley
28-10-2012
It really irritates me when the gender is changed for tis song. It isn't a love song - it's supposed to be the story of someone who goes to see a singer whose songs are representative of the pain the listener feels. It isn't about falling in love with anyone.

Most people here, the X Factor producers and Jahmene are clearly too stupid to realise this, as are the people who've changed the gender in the song before.
oxygenjj
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by plankenheimer:
“Absolutely ”


Moral up bringing is clear to see
neorich
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by plankenheimer:
“I understand what you are saying but people are presuming things because he hasn't had a girlfriend etc.
I've not seen a thread about james arthur being gay for example..By your theory it could be a possibilty”

It could be a possibility that anyone's gay,or bi-sexual, or str8..including..James Arthur..

I've already stated that I'm going on a hunch..re Jahmene.

I'm not presuming he's gay because he hasn't had a girlfriend..and I hope that he's not remotely offended by the fact that it's up for debate, I'm sure this won't be the first, or last time anyone brings it up and he'll have to deal with that and much "worse," if he's successful?

As for James Arthur, I heard he ended up with 5 girls the other night, if all the gumpf in the press is to be believed?
Of course they could've been comparing recipes for how to make a fabulous Raspberry Pavlova?

And, maybe it's all a big smoke screen to hide the fact that he's as gay as a goose..not that I'm think he'd be remotely concerned by being thought so either, or at least, when he gets to perform at G.A.Y. if and when he's kicked out he'll have to put on a good act of not being concerned..



Rich.
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neorich
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by oxygenjj:
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Is he a good christian boy ”

What constitutes a "good," Christian can vary from Christian to Christian..and denomination to denomination.

There's a substantial number of gay Christians out there and an even larger number of Christians who don't take the Bible as God's literal word..on any number of topics..and who're totally tolerant of homosexuality..



Rich.
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sixtynotout
28-10-2012
Originally Posted by ~Twinkle~:
“I couldn't give a flying one about Jahmene's preferences, what I do care about is his singing. I also couldn't give a flying one about the change of words from him to her, again I care about his singing.

I honestly think that this thread is a waste of space and I'm saddened that I had to enter it to comment. ”

My sentiments exactly
alsmama
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by ribtickle:
“As other posters have already pointed out, the lyrics are about being floored by a man singing and playing a song, someone who makes you stop and stare because it's as if they are singing about your life. You die inside because of the recognition:

Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softy with his song.....


James has that effect on some of us, when he's firing on all cylinders.

I've heard many a male version of Killing Me Softly, but nobody had ever changed the gender before. To do so turned the song into a confusing mess, it didn't sound natural to the song - it didn't flow to anyone who's familiar with it, and instead all it did was enforce the singer's supposed heterosexuality by means of a lyrical contrivance and made the song's structure sound slightly disjointed.

It was nice to hear Jahmene sing a song straight without too much of the heliumboy vocalising of which he has almost no control over, but he should understand that as good as he is this song was bigger than him, more famous that he'll ever be, and you don't mess with the greats.”


Originally Posted by GunterJPN:
“Why did Johnny Mathis change it to "her" in his cover of the song? Why did Al B. Sure change it to "her" in his cover? Or Engelbert Humperdinck? Or Perry Como? Or Gene Pitney? Or John Holt?

Because for some people, a stronger connection is made when the singer is the gender that they are attracted to, especially when the singer is singing a ballad. If they are singing about love and the listener believes that all of the lyrics are directed at them, then they get "kfilled" in the sense that a "ladykiller" kills ladies - by sweeping them off of their feet. Since Jahmene is straight, it is perfectly plausible to think that he would be swept off his feet by a female singer singing about loving her man, and Jahmene thinking that he is the man in the lyrics.”


Here to help
Merity
29-10-2012
Quote:
“I couldn't give a flying one about Jahmene's preferences, what I do care about is his singing. I also couldn't give a flying one about the change of words from him to her, again I care about his singing.

I honestly think that this thread is a waste of space and I'm saddened that I had to enter it to comment.”

Me too.

It seems like all people are interested in these days is the private aspects of peoples lives.
And like somehow they have a God given right to know everything about a person.

All that matters is the singing.

Who cares if he changed the words - he sang the song beautifully and the words had meaning.

DS goes from bad to worse. Such a shame - it used to be a great place to come to find out news etc but lately the posting on here has been nasty and personal and not somewhere very nice to be.
jackbell
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by Hibernian88:
“How is it pathetic exactly!?”

It's pathetic that someone can create a thread like this and smugly add "We know". How you can judge him from the view of your sofa I don't know. He's hardly Rylan.

And even if he were gay to create a snidey thread like this is pathetic.
flounder78
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by InsomniacParade:
“Read the lyrics to Killing Me Softly. All of you. It is not a song about a lover. The "him" that is "killing her softly" is a musician, not her lover. Had Jahmene stuck to the original lyrics, it would not have made it a gay version because it is not about a lover.

And that is why I am much more saddened that they changed his lyrics than I am about Jade's or anyone else's. It was not done to match Jahemene's heterosexuality. It was not done to hide Jahmene's homosexuality. It was done because otherwise some knuckle draggers might completely misinterpret the lyrics and decide he is gay and not vote for him as a result. I am saddened by the fact they catered to those people.”

I could not of put it better myself. It is sad that we even have to discuss this rather than just enjoy the performance.
moose82
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by lightblues:
“Good points, I believe he should have picked a different song”

he doesn't get to pick the song nicole does
oxygenjj
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by neorich:
“What constitutes a "good," Christian can vary from Christian to Christian..and denomination to denomination.

There's a substantial number of gay Christians out there and an even larger number of Christians who don't take the Bible as God's literal word..on any number of topics..and who're totally tolerant of homosexuality..



Rich.
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He has good morals
Thats all i was saying nothing more nothing less

Not even going to both with is he or isnt he gay as i couldn't give a toss with all clap trap
neorich
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by oxygenjj:
“He has good morals
Thats all i was saying nothing more nothing less”

No, you asked a question as to whether he was a "good Christian boy."

That's not a statement about his moral character, other than possibly implying that being a "good Christian boy," amounts to being a "moral," person and that itself is up for debate.

Rich.
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oxygenjj
29-10-2012
Children brought up in a christian home tend to hsve a good moral up bringing as display by jahmene
neorich
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by oxygenjj:
“Children brought up in a christian home tend to hsve a good moral up bringing as display by jahmene”

That's an opinion and not a fact.

It's possible that children brought up in a Pagan, or Buddhist, or Muslim home, or an Atheist home receive a good moral upbringing..

And, like I said, IMO, it depends on which type of "Christian," you're talking about, there isn't a one size fits all option on that and it also depends what you mean by "good morals."
Your notion of "good morals," might be vastly different from mine.

I'm sure ther're a number of people out there who believe they've been severely damaged by their "Christian," upbringing..

Rich.
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Conehead
29-10-2012
I would love to hear a choir covering this song and singing about another choir - "killing us softly with their song etc.". Also a woman singing Rocket Man - "she's a rocket woman etc.". That would be good.
neorich
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by Conehead:
“I would love to hear a choir covering this song and singing about another choir - "killing us softly with their song etc.". Also a woman singing Rocket Man - "she's a rocket woman etc.". That would be good.”

That's probably why Kate Bush didn't go for a lyric change when she covered the song, among other reasons



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6g8v2RNLHr0

But then, she didn't change the lyrics to "Candle In The Wind," either!

Rich.
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Cissy Fairfax
29-10-2012
Originally Posted by InsomniacParade:
“Read the lyrics to Killing Me Softly. All of you. It is not a song about a lover. The "him" that is "killing her softly" is a musician, not her lover. Had Jahmene stuck to the original lyrics, it would not have made it a gay version because it is not about a lover.

And that is why I am much more saddened that they changed his lyrics than I am about Jade's or anyone else's. It was not done to match Jahemene's heterosexuality. It was not done to hide Jahmene's homosexuality. It was done because otherwise some knuckle draggers might completely misinterpret the lyrics and decide he is gay and not vote for him as a result. I am saddened by the fact they catered to those people.”

Well done, on one of the few posts on any forum, on any subject that has taught me something and made a bloody good point.
Aries_123
29-10-2012
they always do this on x factor, its so annoying >.<
GunterJPN
30-10-2012
I don't know why people blame it on X-Factor when historically there have been tons of male artists to make the change (a few listed in my previous post).
Would it help you to think that he was singing Al B. Sure!'s version, with a slightly modified backing track (as they often do on X-Factor)?
Perhaps it's just a simple matter of Jahmene being most moved by a female singer in the past. Like Whitney Houston, who he claims to have been one of his favorite singers. Or Lori Lieberman, the original singer. Or Roberta Flack, who made it famous. Or Lauryn Hill, who is probably the most famous CURRENT act. Or his mom. Or his NAN, for all I care. There is no point in the song where "boy", "he", or "his" is used for a rhyme. Changing the gender does nothing about changing the meaning of being moved by someone singing a song. The original was written about a man singing and being moved. That same emotion may have been brought out in Jahmene by a female singer, and singing about that experience made it more believable.

I'm surprised more people aren't offended by the show's attribution of the song to The Fugees, rather than Roberta or Lori. The version he sang seems more like Roberta's than The Fugees, IMO.
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