Originally Posted by momentarything:
“Hmm I want Christian's flaws acknowledged- particularly the way he has been known to pressurise Syed and while he's been wonderful on this account lately, it does contribute to a relationship dynamic where Syed feels he can't be open and honest about his failings- but the focus HAS to be on Syed. Christian has really done very little wrong these past few months, while Syed really has made a mess of everything in his life. But at the same time I don't just want it to be a one-sided attack on Syed. So, basically, I want it weighted in Syed's favour because his behaviour needs explaining the most, but I don't want Christian to be neglected either. Because it's going to be a look at the past 3 years, not just the past 3 months, and Christian's been far from saintly over the past couple of years. But if it's 50/50 it won't be equal because Syed has much behaved worse than Christian has lately.”
“Hmm I want Christian's flaws acknowledged- particularly the way he has been known to pressurise Syed and while he's been wonderful on this account lately, it does contribute to a relationship dynamic where Syed feels he can't be open and honest about his failings- but the focus HAS to be on Syed. Christian has really done very little wrong these past few months, while Syed really has made a mess of everything in his life. But at the same time I don't just want it to be a one-sided attack on Syed. So, basically, I want it weighted in Syed's favour because his behaviour needs explaining the most, but I don't want Christian to be neglected either. Because it's going to be a look at the past 3 years, not just the past 3 months, and Christian's been far from saintly over the past couple of years. But if it's 50/50 it won't be equal because Syed has much behaved worse than Christian has lately.”
I agree with all of this Steph. I don't have a problem with both of thier past behaviour being raised in the 7 minute chat. I actually do want it because it still annoys me to this day that none of last year was addressed, especially the adoption stuff, which is still a sore point for me.
The only thing I take an issue is Christian grovelling or chasing Syed of ANY kind. It would send out a terrible message, and it would just make Christian look desperate. The audience may even question thier happy ending, if it has to take Christian to convince Syed for them to be together, after everything Syed did.
I want to see Syed work for it. Syed has to make the first move IMO when it comes to thier sunset ending.




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Oh ffs
When are these eps, does anyone know?