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Teachers and no doubt others will recognise the phrase "inclusion and differentiation". More widely there is "equality and diversity", but basically, it means that activity is designed so everyone feels welcome and involved, whilst at the same time differences are respected . A difficult balance, and one that only works if everyone willingly and fully plays their part
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There's less footfall by the App threads too. They're off the beaten track. I'm often surprised to see someone on the main forum supporting a couple when I've not seen them on the couple's App thread. I fear that the App threads are portayed as / seen as uncool. It means the uncool amongst us (throws hand in air) miss out on meeting loads of folk on their thread who would add to the chat and serious discussion.
Also I think there's a negative effect on news sharing. Far from fans rushing to say Lisa's doing this... Louis said that... App threads often hold the news in, fearful perhaps of how it will be received at large. I'd break down the walls if poss. ![]() I think you're right in identifying a bit of a siege mentality going on and a suspicion of people from the MF. It's a shame. i think the separation was done with the best intentions but it is law of unintended consequences |
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Strangely enough that is the non-app thread
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Is it really that bad? There's a bit of a sense of humour failure on the main board this year and the same minority there have always been who cross the line into nasty, but I guess that line is different for everyone.
![]() But then maybe I'm at the more cynical end of the range of posters. ![]() ![]() As for cynicism, I'd say I was slap bang in the middle. For me, the balance has really tipped and the SCD experience on DS is not exactly pleasant any more. Much of the time it's a real trial.
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I don't see them as "uncool"
I think you're right in identifying a bit of a siege mentality going on and a suspicion of people from the MF. It's a shame. i think the separation was done with the best intentions but it is law of unintended consequences And it cheered me up no end. But that is quite honestly the only time I can remember reading a positive view of the App forum down here. If they get mentioned it's usually a kind of 'if you think that you need to go to the attic' type of comment. But you're dead right there's suspicion going the other way. I do it myself without thinking... did it a few mins ago... make assumptions about what the MF will say, as if the MF is one big ugly beast instead of loads of individuals, mostly well-meaning, interesting and frankly luvverly. |
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Yes - it can be. There are very few positive threads on the main board this year and the unpleasant minority are sufficiently vocal and vituperative to taint the whole board. I have no idea why some of them even bother watch, other than to take the opportunity to vent their spleen here.
![]() As for cynicism, I'd say I was slap bang in the middle. For me, the balance has really tipped and the SCD experience on DS is not exactly pleasant any more. Much of the time it's a real trial. ![]() I have gone from 2 to 12 on ignore which helps with my sanity.
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I have gone from 2 to 12 on ignore which helps with my sanity.
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Yes - it can be. There are very few positive threads on the main board this year and the unpleasant minority are sufficiently vocal and vituperative to taint the whole board. I have no idea why some of them even bother watch, other than to take the opportunity to vent their spleen here.
![]() As for cynicism, I'd say I was slap bang in the middle. For me, the balance has really tipped and the SCD experience on DS is not exactly pleasant any more. Much of the time it's a real trial. ![]() But then I find that there are a few posters will jump all over the mildest critical post, claiming hate and how the whole board is mean and nasty. I think there are extremes on both sides. ![]() I guess it's a case of reading a post and not assuming the worst all the time or asking for clarification before you bite.
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I don't feel welcome there.
Have you posted there much - if so, apologies for 'missing' you
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IThere's a bit of a sense of humour failure on the main board this year and the same minority there have always been who cross the line into nasty, but I guess that line is different for everyone.
![]() in my experience, people like to dish it out, but they sure can't take it. and variations there upon. |
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there's more hate for Victoria and Denise in this forum imo.
If you look at the current least fave couple poll, Lisa is actually quite low down. ![]() |
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I don't see them as "uncool"
I think you're right in identifying a bit of a siege mentality going on and a suspicion of people from the MF. It's a shame. i think the separation was done with the best intentions but it is law of unintended consequences I well remember that there were complaints that the main page contained so many app threads that - shock horror ![]() - FMs were having to trawl around on PAGE 2!! to try and find partially defunct threads. In retrospect, I'd quite happily see Ballroom Bill back on the main page if it meant certain threads were condemned to the DS dungeons never to see the light of day again, know what I mean,![]() ![]() Anyway, I digress. Those with appreciative proclivities were, I suspect, becoming pretty pissed off with having the finger pointed at them for one reason or another, and in the poll & accompanying thread, many of the regulars voted for a sub forum. The final vote was actually pretty close - but enough to send half the forum upstairs. Bad move. ![]()
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I think to be fair a good two or three of them this year have got it in the neck.
Denise for her dance background, Victoria for being emotional and Louis for being boring. I think Lisa is still behind these three. |
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Bloody hell, I'm up to 21!
and I'm still insane![]() ![]() I haven't got anyone on ignore. If I see a post from someone I'm not keen on, I scan it, and if I suss that's it's really going to get up my nose, I just skip it altogether and move on (and confirm my prejudices at the same time )But 21!!
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I don't feel welcome there.
Give us another try hun, we're nice honest and we're easily distracted by food, drink and half naked sportsmen.
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But then I find that there are a few posters will jump all over the mildest critical post, claiming hate and how the whole board is mean and nasty. I think there are extremes on both sides.
![]() I guess it's a case of reading a post and not assuming the worst all the time or asking for clarification before you bite. ![]() It doesn't feel like an even balance to me any more - and I read far more than I post, so it's perhaps easier to get an overview and a feel for what's going on. |
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21??
![]() ![]() I haven't got anyone on ignore. If I see a post from someone I'm not keen on, I scan it, and if I suss that's it's really going to get up my nose, I just skip it altogether and move on (and confirm my prejudices at the same time )But 21!! ![]() ![]() I can put up with ripe humour, angry feeling, vehement expression, bad temper, strong opinions, a well-liked poster going off on one and having to apologise, but old fashioned class hatred just gets me. Shall I go an let em out??? Watch out for a fluttering of wings
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I'm not sure that's true.
I well remember that there were complaints that the main page contained so many app threads that - shock horror ![]() - FMs were having to trawl around on PAGE 2!! to try and find partially defunct threads. In retrospect, I'd quite happily see Ballroom Bill back on the main page if it meant certain threads were condemned to the DS dungeons never to see the light of day again, know what I mean,![]() ![]() Anyway, I digress. Those with appreciative proclivities were, I suspect, becoming pretty pissed off with having the finger pointed at them for one reason or another, and in the poll & accompanying thread, many of the regulars voted for a sub forum. The final vote was actually pretty close - but enough to send half the forum upstairs. Bad move. ![]() ![]() I think the mods were swamped with alerts from the appreciation threads and saw a solution. Make them separate and and also specify they are for positivity only. The fact it means threads - or the main forum - are a bit lopsided probably wasn't foreseen. |
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It was last year. Any time I read a post full of class hatred I just put em on ignore. Poor buggers were probably only flying through, but if they come back... I'm ready
![]() Funny isn't it? Those are the sort I just see as such complete and utter ar$eholes I couldn't even be bothered to curl my lip at them.
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Oh - Chelsee....I see.
Funny isn't it? Those are the sort I just see as such complete and utter ar$eholes I couldn't even be bothered to curl my lip at them. ![]() Have empied ignore list
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It wasn't just Strictly though. I think it was more actually to do with Big Brother as much as anything else. It had been a very fractious year, the year the Appreciation Attics came into being.
I think the mods were swamped with alerts from the appreciation threads and saw a solution. Make them separate and and also specify they are for positivity only. The fact it means threads - or the main forum - are a bit lopsided probably wasn't foreseen. Big Brother should have its own set of rules though. That's where I started forum life - so SCD was a haven of sanity by comparison. I've hated seeing it slide down the slippery slope.
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Oh - Chelsee....I see.
Funny isn't it? Those are the sort I just see as such complete and utter ar$eholes I couldn't even be bothered to curl my lip at them. ![]() They didn't really bother me either, I thought it said more about them than it did about Chelsee.
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In real life I have a quick temper though. Scares me sometimes...
Have empied ignore list ![]() ![]() Please don't run amok now you're exposed to all those wild eyed posters, will you? |
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Ah - OK, I expect you're right then.
Big Brother should have its own set of rules though. That's where I started forum life - so SCD was a haven of sanity by comparison. I've hated seeing it slide down the slippery slope. ![]() BB was a walk in the park and SCD positively sedate ![]() Even now it barely reaches slight grr on the forum clapometer compared to those heady days! |
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I haven't - I can get riled and it will subside within a nanosecond. Not worth the effort. Occasionally I can really take against someone or soemthing and then it's implacable war.
![]() Please don't run amok now you're exposed to all those wild eyed posters, will you? ![]() Wish I had your self-righting good temper though
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And it cheered me up no end. But that is quite honestly the only time I can remember reading a positive view of the App forum down here. If they get mentioned it's usually a kind of 'if you think that you need to go to the attic' type of comment.

and I'm still insane
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