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Old 17-11-2012, 21:46
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All the girls in my school year thinks he's straight apart from Me and a few others. They won't believe us until Jaymi says it himself.

I really don't know why he can't just say though, instead of getting girls hopes up.
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:47
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He's not, he's just not extremely open about it for obvious reasons. His management and family have spoke about it on Twitter.
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:47
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Why would he randomly just say 'I'm gay'? What relevance has that got to do with anything he's doing on the show?

He's not hiding it, he's just not shouting it from the rooftops. Their manager tweeted yesterday when asked about it 'were not hiding it x' as well as his boyfriend tweeting about him and his brother tweeting Jaymi's boyfriend so it's out there for anyone who wants to find out.
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:48
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Why would he randomly just say 'I'm gay'? What relevance has that got to do with anything he's doing on the show?

He's not hiding it, he's just not shouting it from the rooftops. Their manager tweeted yesterday when asked about it 'were not hiding it x' so it's out there for anyone who wants to find out.
This.
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:51
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Why would he randomly just say 'I'm gay'? What relevance has that got to do with anything he's doing on the show?

He's not hiding it, he's just not shouting it from the rooftops. Their manager tweeted yesterday when asked about it 'were not hiding it x' as well as his boyfriend tweeting about him and his brother tweeting Jaymi's boyfriend so it's out there for anyone who wants to find out.
Some girls will want to know, they think they have a chance. Him not saying anything feels as if he's cheating them imo.
If he's not hiding it he shouldn't be so friendly with all the fans then. Let the other boys do that.

What is their managements twitter?
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:52
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Some girls will want to know, they think they have a chance. Him not saying anything feels as if he's cheating them imo.

What is their managements twitter?
It's not as if any of these fangirls would have a chance with him if he was straight
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:53
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Why would he randomly just say 'I'm gay'? What relevance has that got to do with anything he's doing on the show?

He's not hiding it, he's just not shouting it from the rooftops. Their manager tweeted yesterday when asked about it 'were not hiding it x' as well as his boyfriend tweeting about him and his brother tweeting Jaymi's boyfriend so it's out there for anyone who wants to find out.
Exactly!!

Dermot "So you were in the bottom 2 last week, how did you feel about that?"

Jaymi "Yeah it was awful, so we're giving it 100% this week. Oh and by the way I'm gay"
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:54
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I doubt they'll get as much votes as they have been getting, sad but true

He's not hiding it tho, just not screaming it out loud
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:54
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Some girls will want to know, they think they have a chance. Him not saying anything feels as if he's cheating them imo.
If he's not hiding it he shouldn't be so friendly with all the girl fans then. Let the other boys do that.

What is their managements twitter?
So he shouldn't interact with his fanbase because he's not attracted to them?

It's out there for anyone who wants to see it, it'd be more weird him suddenly coming out with 'I'm gay'. Surprised it hasn't been front page news yet.
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:56
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Some girls will want to know, they think they have a chance. Him not saying anything feels as if he's cheating them imo.

What is their managements twitter?
How do you expect him to say it though? Have a segment of their VT as a 'coming out' story when he's already out? And like they'd have a chance even if he wasn't gay.

https://twitter.com/Blair/status/269237441347588097
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:56
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Exactly!!

Dermot "So you were in the bottom 2 last week, how did you feel about that?"

Jaymi "Yeah it was awful, so we're giving it 100% this week. Oh and by the way I'm gay"
No need to be so over dramatic Lmao.

He could say in an interview or something instead of pretending to like girls by singing songs about them. :sleep:
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Old 17-11-2012, 21:59
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No need to be so over dramatic Lmao.

He could say in an interview or something instead of pretending to like girls by singing songs about them. :sleep:
1 member of a 4 piece group is gay so you expect them all to change the lyrics? Or do you just expect Jaymi to sing different lyrics to the rest of the group
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:00
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His boyfriend was in the audience right behind Dermot when Dermot introduced Christopher.

His family call Olly his boyfriend on twitter and Olly has tweeted about Jaymi coming home to surprise him. He's not hiding at all.
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:20
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1 member of a 4 piece group is gay so you expect them all to change the lyrics? Or do you just expect Jaymi to sing different lyrics to the rest of the group
I would be shocked if only Jaymi was gay
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:20
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His sexuality isn't relevant to his stage performances unlike Rylan.
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:24
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Haha how ridiculous, so he shouldn't speak to his female fans because he's gay?! These 16 year old crazy fans wouldn't have a chance with him even if he was straight!
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:38
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Like others have said he isn't and it isn't relevant. I doubt all the screaming teen girls have any more of a chance with the straight ones anyway!
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:41
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Who actually gives a ****?

And he's in a boy band, you can't be more openly gay than that
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:46
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That is quite a narrow minded opinion saying he shouldn't talk to his gfans. What does it matter if he is gay or he isn't - he is and thats that and it shouldn't effect his chances in the compertition or his performances or whether or not he can promote the band
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:52
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Before I say this, it is annoying how X factor in the past have tried to mask the sexualities of gay male contestants (Austin, Lloyd, Ashley etc) however...

They haven't done the same with jaymi at all. None of the straight members of union j have mentioned their sexuality, in fact no one apart from Rylan and Lucy have stated their sexuality on X factor / xtra factor. So why should jaymi? His boyfriend openly sends public messages to him on twitter. Apart from the weird deletion of a MySpace page and a misquote in an interview (both of which weren't done by jaymi himself) nothing's been said to suggest he's gay or straight. We know he's gay but he doesn't need to mention his sexuality on a singing show, which most contestants haven't bothered to talk about either!
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:53
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The only thing he has to be ashamed about is being in a horrific corporate seeking, talentless, non musical instrument playing, dire pop group
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:55
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I don't think he's hiding it . Most people know he's gay already anyway.
Like other posters have said you can't just bring it up randomly. It doesn't matter whether he's gay or straight what difference does it make other than he can sing.
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Old 17-11-2012, 22:57
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The only thing he has to be ashamed about is being in a horrific corporate seeking, talentless, non musical instrument playing, dire pop group
do you honestly think that Jaymi is a talentless singer?
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Old 17-11-2012, 23:00
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Um, which one's Jaymi?( I feel a bit ill just typing that spelling)
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Old 17-11-2012, 23:10
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Um, which one's Jaymi?( I feel a bit ill just typing that spelling)
The one on the right.
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