Look, fact is, just about every single person in this forum could come up with a sob story from their own lives. I could do many for myself, if you can't yet, you will be able to at some point. XF knows this, so they are the ones that push for every tiny detail in all the contestants lives, weather they like it or not, large or small, and exploit, exploit, exploit. Don't blame any single contestant for having had a rough time in life, blame XF for pushing it to the limit.