Tulisa ''It's been the worst year of my life'' ''I haven't spoken to Simon in a year'

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Tyjet

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by E05297535:
“She even lying not...if the OP's title thread is anything to go by!!! She said she hasn't spoken to Simon in a year....but she did after bootcamp when he told her on the phone,(televised on TV) which group she would be mentoring!!!

Or was my eyes deceiving me??”

The thread title is misleading as she's not quoted as saying she hasn't spoken to Simon in a year in the article at all.

Unless I missed it, but I don't think I did.

jackbell

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by Tyjet:
“She's paid to give her opinion on his performances and he's there to have his performances criticised. The entertainment industry is notoriously vicious and if he feels bullied by Tulisa then he has no business even trying to crack it.”

Indeed. We are not in the office or in class so "bullying", i.e. the social bullying of being made to feel like they are excluded, isn't appropriate here.

The recording industry, as you've said, is cut-throat. These are not teachers or social workers or support workers of vulnerable adults.

Especially as the one being 'bullied' has been accused of strangling a colleague on his cruise liner.

Now THAT'S bullying.

IsItThatDeep

08-12-2012

Wouldn't not having to speak to Simon for a year be a good thing tho?

radio1fann

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by jackbell:
“Indeed. We are not in the office or in class so "bullying", i.e. the social bullying of being made to feel like they are excluded, isn't appropriate here.

The recording industry, as you've said, is cut-throat. These are not teachers or social workers or support workers of vulnerable adults.

Especially as the one being 'bullied' has been accused of strangling a colleague on his cruise liner.

Now THAT'S bullying.”

Exactly, agreed. I think it's the fact Chris acts like he's shaking and all nervous as hell that confuses people. Gary was worse to Rylan but he took it well, only difference.

Leeah

08-12-2012

Oh boo hoo Tulisa :sleep:

dillan

08-12-2012

I read all of it and it never says that she hasn't spoken to Simon in a year..

It also says that ITV are loving her even more this year, so i do think she will return next year.

radio1fann

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by dillan:
“I read all of it and it never says that she hasn't spoken to Simon in a year..

It also says that ITV are loving her even more this year, so i do think she will return next year.”

Yeah i figured that'd be in there, but it wasn't

Here's where she said that.

http://www.entertainmentwise.com/new...well-In-A-Year

troy4783

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by radio1fann:
“I think people forget she is just 24 years old. To be one of the most hated people in the country for doing nothing other than judging a singing competition, and releasing solo music & also having lies often printed about you in tabloids/media must be hard to take.

It is unfair to compare her to people starving, you cannot be upset or depressed because others are worse off? I mean get real everyone has different issues/problems.

To get such hateful abuse constantly, while having sex tapes thrown about by ex bf's your solo career trashed by everyone and people demanding your removed as a judge, when really she'd done nothing wrong apart from be relatively annoying here and there, is a bit unfair. If it's causing her to not sleep or be depressed or cry by herself all the time. It is a mindless reaction to say ''screw her some of us have real problems'' She was not given a silver spoon she worked hard to make her money.”

Agree with this 100% actually feel sorry for her a bit.

C14E

08-12-2012

Originally Posted by Popsmartz:
“I see you appear to have completely missed the point again! It is of no relevance what the single worst thing is. The whole point of my post was to highlight the fact that bullying is often 'discrete'. It's the relentless negative responses, smirks, giggles, negative body language, critiques based on double standards etc week after week after week. If you're not able to deal with the apparent subtlety of the argument then that's not my problem.”

She doesn't think he has "the X Factor". She doesn't like his style of performance or music. She's paid to give an opinion and she gives it. Are we going to end up with judges that have to say something nice every third week because it would be bullying if they didn't?!

God help him when he reads his album reviews. If people think Tulisa is tough on him...

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