Originally Posted by louise1966:
“Why do people assume that a present which has anything to do with the kitchen or cooking, cleaning and the like, is not a 'proper' present? Several years ago, my fiance bought me a Dualit 4 slice stainless steel toaster, and a Siemens Porsche kettle which I had, in the past, admitted to coveting. I was absolutely over the moon and now both are working as well as ever, so the money he paid was well worth it. Back to my point, though; when a girl at work asked him what he had got me for christmas, and he replied 'a kettle and a toaster' - granted, he didn't say 'designer', she was flabbergasted, telling him that wasn't a real present, to which he replied 'well she liked them'. I think they thought he was being mean!”
I agree! My unfavourite presents are glittery seasonal 'luxurious' party elegant clothes and bath sets and my best are cookery porn (lavishly illustrated) and/or iconic equipment.
Yes I am a fashion victim but some have fallen by the wayside and some have become kitchen best friends.
Hey this year I just got a dolsot bibimbap hot stone bowl creation as a late one and I couldn't be more thrilled

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And I will actually use it. How often I don't know

, but I love the thought and thoughtfulness.
Although I did once get a dustbuster which I wasn't quite so excited about.
On the other hand, another year I got a Dyson standy up vacuum which I loved, so there are clearly many shades of not quite black and white in food and household presents.