Originally Posted by wiggles247:
“No, me either - although the ones I've seen on TV (like Tara's) they don't tend to have gone for the whole big white wedding gown - more just a nice dress that could be bought in any dept store. I do always think it's crazy though how on most TV shows they can organise a big wedding do (with all the trimmings - posh venue, vintage cars, picture perfect church) within a matter of 2 or 3 months (sometimes weeks) - when most of the weddings I know are planned at least a year (sometimes more like 2) in advance.”
Yep, that's what I meant by off the rack. If you're going to buy a very nice fitted dress or evening gown and just wear as is, or take to a dry cleaners to make minimal alteration, you can get something from a department store quite easily. And when it is something as low key as Taras (and also you are young and heve the figure to carry off standard size as I did in my teens, 20s but not so much 30s when I got married) then that is fine.
I actually didn't find planning my wedding that bad and without wanting to be 'poor me' I did do it all myself as my mother isn't well, my mother in law was 300 miles away and I just got on with it. That said, I knew the budget (and i'm an accountant in a Creative area), kept o that, was insistent it be kept small and everyone agreed (I think it was 48 in the end), and was just quite hard about saying no, Rob and I don't know them, they're not coming, close family and friends only and dismissing excesses like chocolate fountains, daft ties round chair backs and didn't have a disco - source music myself. Got my mother's neighbours to do the flowers at cost plus nice pressie for her, $um in law made the cake, we did it for 5k (including honeymoon and 'control' of the hotel re bar and hotel rooms) and have been told by by several people it is the nicest wedding they have ever been to.
So, you really don't jave to spend a fortune or have a nervous breakdown. But, I might feel differently if I'd done it in 2 months rather than 9.