Originally Posted by kitkat1971:
“I know some people might think that I am evil in mocking her grief for her dead child - I hasten to add I would never do that in real life and I didn't with Chrissie until this last couple of weeks when she seems to have started using it as an excuse to be as horrible to others as she likes, knowing they won't answer her back because it Is such a hideous thing to have gone through.”
Originally Posted by kitkat1971:
“I think this is one of the reasons that I prefer Jac to Chrissie. She doesn't use her past as an excuse for bad behaviour. We as viewers know that it has contributed to her psychology but can you ever, once, think of a time that she has turned on the tears, said something like it isn't my fault I can't interact with other people, my mum never loved me to get sympathy from someone like Elliot when she has ballsed up because I can't. She owns any mistakes she makes (except horribly and noteably for the INR thing)and takes flak and abuse for them on the chin.”
Originally Posted by Collins1965:
“I totally agree, kitkat. Jac never blames her past for her mistakes or uses the horrible things that happened to her (her abandonment by her mother, her care home trauma) to try to excuse any bad behaviour. Chrissie is a master at this. Yed, losing Amanda was awful and I would not wish such a thing on her, but she is ressurecting that tragedy now to excuse her frankly disgusting treatment of Sasha and Rachel. I would have some sympathy for her if she had not picked up Michael at the first available opportunity and flirted like mad with him INSTEAD of caring for the son she professed to be so devastated about, took out of hospital post op instead of having him under observation and is now carting off on a long haul flight to Australia when 1) he could have a complication during the flight and 2) her seriously ill step daughter is not out of the woods yet. Where is the caring???? No, she oly cares about herself. Jac, on the other hand, DOES care about people and indeed (as with Joseph) puts their needs before her own.”
I agree with you both about Jac not using her past as an excuse, I can't think of an example either. In fact as she seems so reticent to talk about it you could say that she's doing the opposite of this (whatever that would be called - I'm sure there's a proper psychological term [its bound to be a psychodynamic defence mechanism] but I can't think what it would be at the mo), which actually I sometimes wish she wouldn't. Not that I'd want her to use it to explain away her misdeeds but think it would definitely help other people to understand her better if she was more open in other circumstances (although I suspect the prospect of that would be terrifying for her too)
With regard to Chrissie I'm inclined to be a bit more lenient. Whilst I agree that her behaviour after discharging Daniel was pretty poor and that she obviously shouldn't be taking him to Australia at this stage in his and (hopefully!) Rachel's recovery I'm not sure I'd agree with you about Amanda. I think this is partly because I've never been so outraged about how she has behaved in this storyline as some others and partly because to me she didn't seem to be using Amanda's death as an excuse to hurt/be nasty to other people simply to explain how and why she was feeling the way she was (although sometimes I will admit expressing it in not the best way possible).
That said thought your idea of how Chrissie may leave was a classic kitkat - maybe the could incorporate it into a pregnancy-fuelled dream sequence for Jac - and could also see yours happening too Collins, although can't actually see them going with either of those ideas. I'm coming more and more to agree with kitkat that Michael will be involved and not in a good way

especially considering what we know about Hari.
ETA: And I don't think you're evil kitkat!!!