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Old 21-03-2014, 14:21
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I was in Buchanan Street between 1300-1630, when I went into the HMV.
Oh my god you would have been right round the corner from me at that time, I was at the Bus station at that time
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Old 21-03-2014, 18:39
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Oh my god you would have been right round the corner from me at that time, I was at the Bus station at that time
I actually saw a look-alike of you.
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Old 21-03-2014, 19:02
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I actually saw a look-alike of you.
Really? what did he look like? you may have saw me
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Old 21-03-2014, 23:29
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Really? what did he look like? you may have saw me
Haha, if it was you why'd you give me daggers ?

Taller than me, blonde with hair like yours and also quite camp lol, did you walk past JD sports?
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Old 22-03-2014, 00:08
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Haha, if it was you why'd you give me daggers ?

Taller than me, blonde with hair like yours and also quite camp lol, did you walk past JD sports?
Maybe not me then, I was only at the bus station, I have to wait for my bus home after I get off the bus from college.

However ironically I do have a naturally evil look, some people think I'm growling at them when I can't help but look at things... including people

EDIT - Also my bitch swagger wasn't on until today
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Old 22-03-2014, 00:22
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Old 22-03-2014, 00:26
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[quote=The_Sleeper;71847205]

However ironically I do have a naturally evil look, [ /QUOTE]

not in the pub fred you dont, ya little wimp,yeah, ....... only jokin' Jack ......... lad

How yeah doing mucker ? ........ miss you in the pub fred ?
Oh hiya! Batting for our side now! I didn't know you had it in you chap
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Old 22-03-2014, 00:33
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Oh hiya! Batting for our side now! I didn't know you had it in you chap
are you coming back, tae the pub fred, or wot matey ? theres a double Vod, wiv yer name on it ?

get it sorted laddie


Its jacks fault for the quotes fook-up
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Old 22-03-2014, 01:07
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are you coming back, tae the pub fred, or wot matey ? theres a double Vod, wiv yer name on it ?

get it sorted laddie


Its jacks fault for the quotes fook-up
Aye, soon I will, and it will be a snake bite for me thanks (lowering the tone since 1995)

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Old 22-03-2014, 19:54
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Jaime on The Voice... rawr.
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Old 22-03-2014, 22:43
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Argh I'm having boy dilemmas.

I met this guy a couple of months ago, I was really drunk and started talking to him. Then a week or so later he added me on FB. (We only have one mutual friend but I'm pretty sure I mentioned this friend so he isn't weird!)

We talked a little bit but the conversation quickly fizzled out, but we still like/comment eachothers posts on Facebook etc. And I saw him on a night out where I was so drunk and nervous I pretty much only said "hi", "how are you" etc.

Then I saw him again earlier this week for a sports relief charity thing, again it was only a brief "hi" even though he seemed excited about me being there on Facebook. Now I just don't know how to approach him and get to know him better, I think I'm starting to really fancy him.

What's more is I know he's in his final year at uni, so I don't know if he'll be staying around in Sheffield after he finishes.

Sorry this is long, but I don't know how to make things go forward, without seeming too keen etc.
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Old 23-03-2014, 22:07
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Well I don't know what advice to offer, other than to suggest that you either try to start up another FB PM conversation, or next time you see him try talking about anything (like then weather or something).

Its worth a shot. Whatcha got to loose?
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Old 23-03-2014, 22:35
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Argh I'm having boy dilemmas.

I met this guy a couple of months ago, I was really drunk and started talking to him. Then a week or so later he added me on FB. (We only have one mutual friend but I'm pretty sure I mentioned this friend so he isn't weird!)

We talked a little bit but the conversation quickly fizzled out, but we still like/comment eachothers posts on Facebook etc. And I saw him on a night out where I was so drunk and nervous I pretty much only said "hi", "how are you" etc.

Then I saw him again earlier this week for a sports relief charity thing, again it was only a brief "hi" even though he seemed excited about me being there on Facebook. Now I just don't know how to approach him and get to know him better, I think I'm starting to really fancy him.

What's more is I know he's in his final year at uni, so I don't know if he'll be staying around in Sheffield after he finishes.

Sorry this is long, but I don't know how to make things go forward, without seeming too keen etc.
Don't get too ahead of yourself, him staying in Sheffield is something to consider later, for now, why not try and arrange a date, but don't frame it like that, invite him out on a night out or something .
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Old 23-03-2014, 23:09
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Don't get too ahead of yourself, him staying in Sheffield is something to consider later, for now, why not try and arrange a date, but don't frame it like that, invite him out on a night out or something .
The consequences of being a deep thinker!

Your advice makes sense, he frequents a gay bar most Tuesdays. I might persuade friends to go and casually ask if he's going on FB? But even then I'm worried that'd make me look like a bit of a loser.

God I'm so much better with men I'm not actually that into...
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Old 23-03-2014, 23:43
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The consequences of being a deep thinker!

Your advice makes sense, he frequents a gay bar most Tuesdays. I might persuade friends to go and casually ask if he's going on FB? But even then I'm worried that'd make me look like a bit of a loser.

God I'm so much better with men I'm not actually that into...
That sounds so familiar.. tbh, I'm the exact same, hence why I picked up on it...

But yeah don't mention it to him, just accidentally bump into him there.
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Old 24-03-2014, 00:34
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That sounds so familiar.. tbh, I'm the exact same, hence why I picked up on it...

But yeah don't mention it to him, just accidentally bump into him there.
It's one of the best and worst things about me I think. And thanks.

I just hope I'm not so awkward next time I bump into him. I hate being de-swaggered...
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Old 25-03-2014, 16:59
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Anyone seen the ad for "Gay Marriage: The Musical" on C4? Why am I worried its going to be some awful cash in?
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Old 25-03-2014, 17:19
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Anyone seen the ad for "Gay Marriage: The Musical" on C4? Why am I worried its going to be some awful cash in?
I haven't but I'll keep an eye out.

Isn't most things C4 do a cringey cash in?

We'll have to see for ourselves I guess
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Old 25-03-2014, 19:25
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Yeah they have gone "a bit Channel 5" as of late.

Blurb on the C4 web says:
Channel 4 offers viewers front-row seats at an extraordinary gay wedding, which the grooms are staging as a musical, from sung vows to show-stopping ensembles and a duet from their mums
Monday 10pm.

Total cringe.
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Old 26-03-2014, 19:03
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Yeah they have gone "a bit Channel 5" as of late.

Blurb on the C4 web says:

Monday 10pm.

Total cringe.
F*cking cringe.

So I had to stand up to the sexist lecturer today, I just couldn't bare to listen to her claptrap anymore. I put my point across in a polite way at the end of the class and said I wasn't so comfortable with her comments and "jokes". She said I was being over-sensitive, but to be fair it isn't just me with a gripe, half the class does, and only I spoke up.

Would she be happy if I cracked a joke about women being good for 3 things? I doubt it.
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Old 26-03-2014, 19:30
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Go above her head, doesn't matter if you're oversensitive, if she's made inappropriate comments, she needs to be held responsible.
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Old 26-03-2014, 20:36
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Go above her head, doesn't matter if you're oversensitive, if she's made inappropriate comments, she needs to be held responsible.
I have already quoted a few, but she keeps saying she's joking, but she's a psychology lecturer, she must be able to read people's body language and be able to tell that they don't find it funny.

The way she talks about feminism and how men are so useless and grinding women down goes beyond what she teaches but rather what she believes. She tried making me feel as if I have a problem with learning about feminism, which I do not, but we're not covering that at the moment, so why bring it into class?

I've spoken to her about it for now, and she did say she will watch what she says, (through gritted teeth, but I don't care whether she likes it or not) as long as there's no atmosphere or she starts to treat me and the other people who don't enjoy her comedy then all is fine, but if so then I'll take it to the head of dept.
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Old 26-03-2014, 20:37
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I have already quoted a few, but she keeps saying she's joking, but she's a psychology lecturer, she must be able to read people's body language and be able to tell that they don't find it funny.

The way she talks about feminism and how men are so useless and grinding women down goes beyond what she teaches but rather what she believes. She tried making me feel as if I have a problem with learning about feminism, which I do not, but we're not covering that at the moment, so why bring it into class?

I've spoken to her about it for now, and she did say she will watch what she says, (through gritted teeth, but I don't care whether she likes it or not) as long as there's no atmosphere or she starts to treat me and the other people who don't enjoy her comedy then all is fine, but if so then I'll take it to the head of dept.
Good for you standing up for what you believe in.
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Old 28-03-2014, 09:14
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*throws confetti about*

The first weddings can be held from tomorrow!
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Old 28-03-2014, 18:12
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Woo!

Is there any difference between civil union and marriage out of interest?

Do people in civil partnerships have the same legal rights as married people?
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