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#3301 |
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Actually no. I've know the manager for ages, he's a good man. Just a bit of a prat. I can't see anyone else having a problem.
I still don't wanna tell anyone. Im not sure I'll ever transition. The thought still scares me..... Not transitioning depresses me though. ![]() . Do you know Nightfox_dancer on here? She's usually in Eurovision threads but she may be able to give you some advice!
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#3302 |
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I can't really offer much advice Fairyprincess0, other than to offer best wishes and just to say that these things do take time.
I know its a different thing, but it took me years to accept and connect all the dots - and then once the internet came along it still took another 5 to have the cajones to post in this very thread. Its daft really when I think about it, I was genuinely nervous typing that first post.... and look at me now; ya can't shut me up! ![]() I've still got a ways to go - I'm still in Narnia, but I'm so much closer to that door than I was in '07. In short, if we can help we try to.
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#3303 |
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I'm 34, I was 19 when I started to put shit together. A handful of family members know. By mam is as ok with it has she can be. Though she wants me to 'take it to my grave'.
I've spent quite a bit of time 'catfishing', hence my username. I was at a low ebb a few months ago, and set up a more 'honest' user account. Since then, I've been really starting to ask the big questions about my future. But the whole thing scares me silly..... |
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#3304 |
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I'm 34, I was 19 when I started to put shit together. A handful of family members know. By mam is as ok with it has she can be. Though she wants me to 'take it to my grave'.
I've spent quite a bit of time 'catfishing', hence my username. I was at a low ebb a few months ago, and set up a more 'honest' user account. Since then, I've been really starting to ask the big questions about my future. But the whole thing scares me silly..... x
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#3305 |
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I'm 34, I was 19 when I started to put shit together. A handful of family members know. By mam is as ok with it has she can be. Though she wants me to 'take it to my grave'.
I've spent quite a bit of time 'catfishing', hence my username. I was at a low ebb a few months ago, and set up a more 'honest' user account. Since then, I've been really starting to ask the big questions about my future. But the whole thing scares me silly..... Hate to sound cliche, but life's too short not to be who we are. In your last days I'm sure you'd want to look back knowing you've lived your life on your terms. I know I don't even know you and your full story. And I know being transgender is a journey only other TG's would understand. But I hope I've lifted your spirits in some way. ![]() Just be happy. |
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#3306 |
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Fairy I don't think I could give you any more helpful advice than the guys already have, but I think you should follow your heart, sure it'll be daunting, but y'know what they say, this life is only once, and you should go ahead. It seems like you have two options, to pursue a happier life or or not, and I think you should go with the former.
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#3307 |
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Not that it's new information or anything but a lot of people on this forum are horrible and sad little people.
There's a thread about selfies on GD and some judgemental idiots have already decided that people who take selfies are sad, have no friends, are arrogant/vain/narcissistic and have a low IQ. Well my response to that would be they are the sad ******* complaining about others posting harmless photos on the internet. Maybe they should take a look in the mirror, no pun intended. |
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#3308 |
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Meh don't waste time worrying on them. There's plenty of eejits about here that seem to think their opinion is the only one that matters. (This coming from someone who is indifferent to 'the selfie').
I guess we'll never get a harmonious web forum, that ideal is self defeating, but it'd be nice if people could express their opinions in cleverly worded responses and not just resorting to what equates to playground name calling. |
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I did something reckless today. I told a woman at work I was TG. She said she knew I was something like that..... I actually feel better.
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I did something reckless today. I told a woman at work I was TG. She said she knew I was something like that..... I actually feel better.
I'm glad you feel better.
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I did something reckless today. I told a woman at work I was TG. She said she knew I was something like that..... I actually feel better.
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Sorry to skew the conversation in a different direction for a moment but I'm after some fashion advice.
Bowties: are they still 'in'? |
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#3313 |
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Sorry to skew the conversation in a different direction for a moment but I'm after some fashion advice.
Bowties: are they still 'in'? .http://imgur.com/vx3KuH5 |
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lol thanks. Of course my next problem is if I could carry one off without looking like a complete pratt.
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lol thanks. Of course my next problem is if I could carry one off without looking like a complete pratt.
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hahahaha maybe. I haven't got one yet. I want a subtle one. Maybe a skinny '60s one.
![]() This one maybe a little too 'on the nose'.
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hahahaha maybe. I haven't got one yet. I want a subtle one. Maybe a skinny '60s one.
![]() This one maybe a little too 'on the nose'. ![]() |
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#3318 |
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It'll turn heads, that's for sure.
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Sorry to skew the conversation in a different direction for a moment but I'm after some fashion advice.
Bowties: are they still 'in'?
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^lol aww thanks. Is it the newish trend for them that causes the hate or do you just not like the fashion full stop?
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Well my response to that would be they are the sad ![]() Hiya Jack, mucker miss you in the pub thread !
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I watch Law and Order SVU on Universal, amongst other shows, and they've been trailing Bates Motel....the two people in it, Max Theirot, and Freddie Highmore are enough to get me interested in this
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#3323 |
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^lol aww thanks. Is it the newish trend for them that causes the hate or do you just not like the fashion full stop?
![]() There's no such thing as all the rage in reality, dress how you like as long as it's not sandals with socks or football strip tucked into anything then you can't go wrong. |
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#3324 |
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Well my response tae yer other comments is * give Jack the glesga kiss*
![]() Hiya Jack, mucker miss you in the pub thread ! ![]()
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#3325 |
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I watch Law and Order SVU on Universal, amongst other shows, and they've been trailing Bates Motel....the two people in it, Max Theirot, and Freddie Highmore are enough to get me interested in this
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No, I AM fashion lovie, and people would do well to follow my suit
![]() There's no such thing as all the rage in reality, dress how you like as long as it's not sandals with socks or football strip tucked into anything then you can't go wrong. Sounds like I'm channelling Joan Rivers now... |
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