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#326 |
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Don't worry, you didn't make me feel uncomfortable. After all twas I who broached the subject. And thank you for the words of encouragement.
I just seem to flip between wanting to be out and wonder 'why bother' these days. Anyway, enough of my bitchin' .. what's everyone else been up to? You think you're bitchin? God no one pities themselves more than I do right now... One minute I'm in the mindset that I'm too busy for any relationships with school and then the next it's "WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?!!? WHY DON'T I HAVE A BOYFRIEND (or girlfriend but I have no luck with ladies) "
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#327 |
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Blaine Anderson's locker
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Do you have any other gay friends, or friends who have other gay friends?
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You think you're bitchin? God no one pities themselves more than I do right now...
One minute I'm in the mindset that I'm too busy for any relationships with school and then the next it's "WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?!!? WHY DON'T I HAVE A BOYFRIEND (or girlfriend but I have no luck with ladies) " You've got great confidence, I envy you for it, so from that side at least I can't see that holding you back. Its just a matter of time. Mr or Mrs Right will arrive soon enough.
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#328 |
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I've been watching a few more of his videos and I'm amazed at how inspirational he is. I know that there are a myriad of YouTubers like him.. they're all doing an awesome job, but what stands out to me is the fact he's military! He must be such an inspiration for others in the services.
Makes you think that if a guy like him, and his bf, can be open whilst being in an incredibly macho environment, then what's stopping that pro-athlete (besides the obvious!)? What I'm trying to say is that its another positive step forward for 'da gays'. EDIT: Yeah I know I sound hypocritical saying that. ![]() There's many examples out there of suspected gay athletes who have been close with members of the same sex which is then cut dead once it starts getting too much attention. Prime example of this being Maria Sharapova was seen to be really close friends with a certain someone, yet all contact stopped once it started getting a little too much public attention and stuff It's a crying shame though if the real reason behind pro-athletes not coming out and being true to themselves is based heavily upon the financial consequences of doing so...Quote:
I just seem to flip between wanting to be out and wonder 'why bother' these days.
Anyway, enough of my bitchin' .. what's everyone else been up to? I've come to realise that the future is what you make of it and I'm sure it's never too late to make a change for the better Whatever you're wanting from life, be that love, happiness, money etc, you've still got the remainder of your life ahead of you to obtain these things, so never let yourself give up and think 'why bother?'. You're a sweet, kind, caring and great guy who, whether you want to believe this or not, has a lot to offer the people around him, so never give up the belief in what you want
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#329 |
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I am bloody pissed off with this cold weather when it going to end :'( rant over lol
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#330 |
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I am bloody pissed off with this cold weather when it going to end :'( rant over lol
I'm really puzzled though because it was about -4°C here in Bristol with a wind chill of -10°C last night, yet my car windscreen didn't need de-icing this morning. How does that even work? ![]() I want to be back in Tenerife. It was lush there. ![]() Also guys, I want to change my username to something a little less specific; do any of you have any ideas? Feeling pretty uninspired!
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#331 |
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Purgatorium
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Well I can tell you right now, there's nothing wrong with you. You've got great confidence, I envy you for it, so from that side at least I can't see that holding you back. Its just a matter of time. Mr or Mrs Right will arrive soon enough.
I've thought maybe the reason I can't seem to do well with guys is because maybe I'm not anyone's Mr Right :/Thanks for the kind words though Mark ![]() Quote:
Awwh Mark, I know it's easier said than done, but please try to never give up hope and let yourself start thinking like 'why bother' to anything in life...
I've come to realise that the future is what you make of it and I'm sure it's never too late to make a change for the better Whatever you're wanting from life, be that love, happiness, money etc, you've still got the remainder of your life ahead of you to obtain these things, so never let yourself give up and think 'why bother?'. You're a sweet, kind, caring and great guy who, whether you want to believe this or not, has a lot to offer the people around him, so never give up the belief in what you want ![]()
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#332 |
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Freezing isn't it?
I'm really puzzled though because it was about -4°C here in Bristol with a wind chill of -10°C last night, yet my car windscreen didn't need de-icing this morning. How does that even work? ![]() I want to be back in Tenerife. It was lush there. ![]() Also guys, I want to change my username to something a little less specific; do any of you have any ideas? Feeling pretty uninspired!
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#333 |
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I've thought maybe the reason I can't seem to do well with guys is because maybe I'm not anyone's Mr Right :/
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#334 |
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yep the same didn't need to deice the van. Umm maybe change it too imfreezeingmybuttoffhere
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According to one of my colleagues it's due to the strong wind meaning the ice crystals can't settle long enough to freeze onto the windscreen. Suits me.
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#336 |
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id rather not have the strong winds as in working outside making my day lot harder grr
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#337 |
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I am bloody pissed off with this cold weather when it going to end :'( rant over lol
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Also guys, I want to change my username to something a little less specific; do any of you have any ideas? Feeling pretty uninspired! |
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#338 |
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Join Date: Jul 2012
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I think a nice brew is in order to get me through the rest of the college day.
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Yeah I bet that isn't too fun! What is it you do?
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#340 |
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#341 |
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They don't do username changes on DS any more.
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#342 |
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Join Date: Jul 2012
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I think Adam793 is quite catchy.
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I think Adam793 is quite catchy.
Yeah I'll request that!
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#344 |
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Join Date: Jun 2011
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mr right is down here in Kent
![]() ![]() ![]() FFS!!!!!! My parents keep burying their heads in the sand about the cocking hot water, my skin is getting worse because the water isn't sufficiently hot enough to open my pores, and I'm sick of it to be frank ![]() And I've been walking like 3.5 miles home from school every day for the past 3 weeks and I'm in no better shape than I was. RANT Over, sorry I'm just so fed up, I need to vent. |
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#345 |
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You know what I might just take you up on that offer
![]() FFS!!!!!! My parents keep burying their heads in the sand about the cocking hot water, my skin is getting worse because the water isn't sufficiently hot enough to open my pores, and I'm sick of it to be frank ![]() And I've been walking like 3.5 miles home from school every day for the past 3 weeks and I'm in no better shape than I was. RANT Over, sorry I'm just so fed up, I need to vent. do u pay rent to ur parents just out of interest? |
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#346 |
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Also just keep at the walking if your trying to achieve a better shape . I know you been doing it for 3 weeks but u may have to keep on doing it
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#347 |
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do u pay rent to ur parents just out of interest?
I'm going to try to find a job, but it's no the right time with exams looming in. |
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#348 |
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I realise I'm going to sound a tad harsh, but I genuinely believe a big factor for pro-athletes (particularly those who have an image to maintain) is that a lot of it is down to their sponsorship/image promotion and the monetary consequences of this resulting in their 'advisors' in these areas putting pressure on them not to come out, rather than them genuinely fearing a backlash against them for being gay.
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Prime example of this being Maria Sharapova was seen to be really close friends with a certain someone
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Awwh Mark, I know it's easier said than done, but please try to never give up hope and let yourself start thinking like 'why bother' to anything in life...
I've come to realise that the future is what you make of it and I'm sure it's never too late to make a change for the better Whatever you're wanting from life, be that love, happiness, money etc, you've still got the remainder of your life ahead of you to obtain these things, so never let yourself give up and think 'why bother?'. You're a sweet, kind, caring and great guy who, whether you want to believe this or not, has a lot to offer the people around him, so never give up the belief in what you want ![]() Quote:
Also guys, I want to change my username to something a little less specific; do any of you have any ideas?
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I've thought maybe the reason I can't seem to do well with guys is because maybe I'm not anyone's Mr Right :/
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Thanks for the kind words though Mark
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They don't do username changes on DS any more.
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#349 |
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: The general Yorkshire area.
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Women are a nightmare.
Being gay>>>>>>>>>Being straight.
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#350 |
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: London
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me never ![]() .Quote:
Ha. We'll see about that! If I decide I want to change it to something less personally identifying I'll be strongly asking for them to do so!
They don't even let you de-register, and re-register any more. If you de-register, it's permanent! |
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You've got great confidence, I envy you for it, so from that side at least I can't see that holding you back. Its just a matter of time. Mr or Mrs Right will arrive soon enough.





