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Old 14-05-2014, 20:40
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dating a guy for 5 years and I get dumped over the phone
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:03
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**** him.....
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:10
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dating a guy for 5 years and I get dumped over the phone
Not cool. A gentleman does not do that.

Or to put it more succinctly.....
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:14
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Not cool. A gentleman does not do that.

Or to put it more succinctly.....

Well I have had my cry. And I'm still very much confused and hurt. My biggest worry is where do I go from here all my friends are his friends and they are more likely to follow him I feel so alone
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:35
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Well I have had my cry. And I'm still very much confused and hurt. My biggest worry is where do I go from here all my friends are his friends and they are more likely to follow him I feel so alone
Awk I'm really sorry to hear that booty, you're such a nice guy too!

Well if they follow him after how he dumped you, not even having the f*cking decency to sit you down and have a long talk shows him and them up. I'd rather be alone than have friends like that personally.

Are you plotting revenge on the ****?
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:39
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Awk I'm really sorry to hear that booty, you're such a nice guy too!

Well if they follow him after how he dumped you, not even having the f*cking decency to sit you down and have a long talk shows him and them up. I'd rather be alone than have friends like that personally.

Are you plotting revenge on the ****?
Thankyou for your kind words. I would like to think I'm to grown for for revenge. However he said he was coming round for his stuff in a few weeks, so I now have a few weeks to find a new bloke and rub it in his face
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:47
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Thankyou for your kind words. I would like to think I'm to grown for for revenge. However he said he was coming round for his stuff in a few weeks, so I now have a few weeks to find a new bloke and rub it in his face
Oh? in a few weeks eh?

It's not as if you've any legal obligation to keep them, I'd say get them out within the week or they're out on the street. I know revenge is never a good idea but if I was in your situation and had my little black heart broken over the phone then I'd be a furious mo'fo on heat.

Although a new bloke would be good too. Happiness is revenge in itself.
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Old 14-05-2014, 21:53
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You should go round town, writing his phone number in every public toilet.....
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Old 15-05-2014, 00:01
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If they really are your friends, they'll still be your friends regardless of the break up. You'll bounce back too, it was a douchey thing for him to do, but time is a great healer.
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Old 15-05-2014, 00:36
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Evening peeps, although it's technically morning now

Got a busy day ahead. I should be at my voluntary placement today but they asked me if I could swap it to Friday just for one week. Works out for me as it means I can go to college and do my work today. Planning on finishing off my portfolio & my research report too. Which then means all I have left is the case study to do by Tuesday morning Fingers crossed my plan works out!!
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Old 15-05-2014, 06:02
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Evening peeps, although it's technically morning now

Got a busy day ahead. I should be at my voluntary placement today but they asked me if I could swap it to Friday just for one week. Works out for me as it means I can go to college and do my work today. Planning on finishing off my portfolio & my research report too. Which then means all I have left is the case study to do by Tuesday morning Fingers crossed my plan works out!!
-crosses fingers-
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Old 15-05-2014, 08:01
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Evening peeps, although it's technically morning now

Got a busy day ahead. I should be at my voluntary placement today but they asked me if I could swap it to Friday just for one week. Works out for me as it means I can go to college and do my work today. Planning on finishing off my portfolio & my research report too. Which then means all I have left is the case study to do by Tuesday morning Fingers crossed my plan works out!!
Fingers crossed! Wishing you all the best x
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Old 15-05-2014, 11:43
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When its came to doing assessments for some reason I always experience the Houdini fortune, I was certain I'd flop criminology today but I managed to memorise three pages worth of work and I was on fire. This has been a fantastic week so far.

I got 16/20 for politics so I'm hoping that trend will continue
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Old 15-05-2014, 14:39
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So I've passed BOTH the essay and the closed assessment for Criminology
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Old 15-05-2014, 16:23
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So I've passed BOTH the essay and the closed assessment for Criminology
YAY! Well done You must be so relieved!
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Old 15-05-2014, 19:09
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YAY! Well done You must be so relieved!
I am indeed

Is your work all done?
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Old 15-05-2014, 19:10
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I am indeed

Is your work all done?
Aw lovely Yep all my work is done (finished it all on Monday) Whether I pass or not is a different matter
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Old 15-05-2014, 19:36
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So I've passed BOTH the essay and the closed assessment for Criminology
Congratulations!

Cocktails with little umbrellas all around!
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Old 15-05-2014, 19:42
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Congratulations!

Cocktails with little umbrellas all around!
A Fishbowl would go down great
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Old 15-05-2014, 20:06
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Fingers crossed! Wishing you all the best x
Thank you both

When its came to doing assessments for some reason I always experience the Houdini fortune, I was certain I'd flop criminology today but I managed to memorise three pages worth of work and I was on fire. This has been a fantastic week so far.

I got 16/20 for politics so I'm hoping that trend will continue
Well done you

So I've passed BOTH the essay and the closed assessment for Criminology
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT




I was at college from just before 11am til 7.15pm Have finished my portfolio and ALMOST finished my research report. So have come home, going to eat my dinner (it's cooking) and then finish it off. Grrr! Lol
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Old 15-05-2014, 20:13
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A Fishbowl would go down great
is that a cocktail or a suggestion on the size of drinking container you want?
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Old 15-05-2014, 20:49
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Hey guys. I’m still hurting but some of the hurt has gone away through the day. I’m more hurt about with the way he ended it. He was away this week anyway as he is spending time with a family member (this is actually the case), but before her left he said we would go on holiday so asked me to pick up some brochures whilst he was away. I did this and was getting quite excited about going on holiday together.

During the build-up of him going away from a week no distance was growing between us he was still very loving and kind. So it was very much a shock… but it had be planed. This afternoon I got a letter through the post for occupier I opened it and it was a letter from letter redirection.

Today I woke up feeling very low, as I said before my friends were his friends so I felt my social circle was dead. Something inside of me did not want to admit defeat thought. I spoke to a friend on facebook that have not spoken to for ages and we have pretty much spent the day together, we went to costa and spent the rest of the day walking around just talking and my friend offering me advice and support. We have made plans for Saturday also

When I got home I was contacted by a friend on both mine and ex boyfriend's and I now have plans for a get together tomorrow.

I also got in contact with LGBT and they have gave me advice on social groups I may be interested in joining in hopes of meeting new people.
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Old 15-05-2014, 21:10
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is that a cocktail or a suggestion on the size of drinking container you want?
Both

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT




I was at college from just before 11am til 7.15pm Have finished my portfolio and ALMOST finished my research report. So have come home, going to eat my dinner (it's cooking) and then finish it off. Grrr! Lol
11 until 7:15?!!? sod that

Dedicated aren't you?

Hey guys. I’m still hurting but some of the hurt has gone away through the day. I’m more hurt about with the way he ended it. He was away this week anyway as he is spending time with a family member (this is actually the case), but before her left he said we would go on holiday so asked me to pick up some brochures whilst he was away. I did this and was getting quite excited about going on holiday together.

During the build-up of him going away from a week no distance was growing between us he was still very loving and kind. So it was very much a shock… but it had be planed. This afternoon I got a letter through the post for occupier I opened it and it was a letter from letter redirection.

Today I woke up feeling very low, as I said before my friends were his friends so I felt my social circle was dead. Something inside of me did not want to admit defeat thought. I spoke to a friend on facebook that have not spoken to for ages and we have pretty much spent the day together, we went to costa and spent the rest of the day walking around just talking and my friend offering me advice and support. We have made plans for Saturday also

When I got home I was contacted by a friend on both mine and ex boyfriend's and I now have plans for a get together tomorrow.

I also got in contact with LGBT and they have gave me advice on social groups I may be interested in joining in hopes of meeting new people.
Good to hear, at risk of sounding patronizing I'm glad to hear youre picking yourself up and getting on with it
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Old 15-05-2014, 21:32
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Booty, I'm sorry to hear that but glad you're making new plans. I'm sorry I didn't reply last night, I had thought you said 5 days together not 5 years which was slightly why I ignored you. Sooooooo sorry

BB, I know :| Still at it aha. 1430 words now
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Old 15-05-2014, 22:05
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Just to echo what the others said Boots, I'm glad you're already picking yourself up.
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