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Old 15-02-2013, 22:17
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I have just been reading a book, (Infidelity for beginners by Danny King), and came across one claim that I found interesting.The average person has 20 sexual partners in their life. Now, having been married since 22 and not had any affairs, (combined with being crap around women as a youngster), my tally is FAR, FAR below this. I am 36 and my number is 4. Am I just hopelessly crap, or do the few people that shag everything available drag the average numbers up?
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:18
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who counts? i don't
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:18
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who counts? i don't
Well, anything less than 10, and counting is sort of easy.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:26
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I'm 22 and have had 6, I am currently in a serious relationship as well, so that could well be my final count. I feel this is significantly lower than the average male my age, but I dunno, I just don't like shagging anything that moves, so I don't I am sure if I lowered my standards or whatever, I'd be closer to the average. (that sounded bad)
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:29
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39, met my husband at 18, number is 5 although I'm pretty sure one of them wouldn't officially count.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:33
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I must be one of the very few people who has ever actually kept a list. It's somewhere between 25 and 30, and the uncertainty is because there are some, though written down at the time, that I can't actually remember
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:36
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Spice up your sex life by trying a bit of "rodeo sex." Take your missus from behind and
holding on tightly to her jugs, whisper 'Your sister is better than you.'
See how long you can "stay mounted" for.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:36
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39, met my husband at 18, number is 5 although I'm pretty sure one of them wouldn't officially count.
Wow, I totally misread that as your total was 39 but your husband was number 18 for a moment there. That would be 21 WHOLE AFFAIRS! How would anyone have the time???

Makes much more sense the way you actually meant it. But not as exciting.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:37
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There are some of us still on 0!
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:37
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I must be one of the very few people who has ever actually kept a list. It's somewhere between 25 and 30, and the uncertainty is because there are some, though written down at the time, that I can't actually remember

You kept a list?!

Did you mark them all out of 10 too?
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:38
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Spice up your sex life by trying a bit of "rodeo sex." Take your missus from behind and
holding on tightly to her jugs, whisper 'Your sister is better than you.'
See how long you can "stay mounted" for.
My wife doesn't have a sister. She does have a brother though. Would that work?
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:40
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Wow I can barely make ten. Someone is bumping up the average (literally) somewhere.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:40
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You kept a list?!

Did you mark them all out of 10 too?
In my head. Not on paper
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:41
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I have just been reading a book, (Infidelity for beginners by Danny King), and came across one claim that I found interesting.The average person has 20 sexual partners in their life. Now, having been married since 22 and not had any affairs, (combined with being crap around women as a youngster), my tally is FAR, FAR below this. I am 36 and my number is 4. Am I just hopelessly crap, or do the few people that shag everything available drag the average numbers up?
I'm 24 and my number is 8. Hopefully this will be the final count as I'm in a long term relationship that looks like it has a good future...but you never know. I don't think I'd ever get to 20 though. Relax, who cares what others are doing. Some people sleep with hundreds of people in their life time, others die virgins. Just stick with what's right for you!
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:42
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OMFG! I'm a slag & a bit ashamed of it.. so I will say 8 and I will not budge.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:42
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In my head. Not on paper

ah right, well that's slightly better then!
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:43
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My wife doesn't have a sister. She does have a brother though. Would that work?
Yes. I think Gary should work nicely.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:43
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You only need to watch 'What Happens In Kavos' to see how the averages are bumped up.
STD averages too.
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:44
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3 and a quickie. #3 (present company) is great!!
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:54
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I'm 24 and my number is 8. Hopefully this will be the final count as I'm in a long term relationship that looks like it has a good future...but you never know. I don't think I'd ever get to 20 though. Relax, who cares what others are doing. Some people sleep with hundreds of people in their life time, others die virgins. Just stick with what's right for you!
Well, thankyou for the Jeremy Kyle advice, but I honestly don't give a crap one way or the other. I just read this in a book and found it interesting to see what the average really is. I hope that my number never increases as I have no plans to shag anybody else other than my wife. I love being married. I love not having to make an effort and not having to put up with all the bullshit involved with trying to pick up girls.

Probably best not to tell my wife about the not having to make an effort bit
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Old 15-02-2013, 22:56
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Zero !
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Old 15-02-2013, 23:02
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0 im 22
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Old 15-02-2013, 23:02
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I'm taking this to the grave with me.
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Old 15-02-2013, 23:04
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I'm 33 and had more than 10, less than 20. Without counting I couldn't give you the exact number
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Old 15-02-2013, 23:11
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i been married twice once for 25 years and now for 8 years+
between 2002/4 i had sexual laisons with about 60+ women all but two was one night or less affairs.
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